Creativity in BDSM

Living in a 24/7 BDSM lifestyle relationship requires a lot of patience, determination, effort and above all creativity. This is what I have learned from my own experiences as well as from watching Master’s documentation of other real BDSM lifestylers on everydayslaves.com. I know I have said this before, but truthfully being the subservient slave seems to me, much easier than being the responsible and dominating Master. All i have to worry about in my day to day life is making Master happy by performing my required tasks and obeying his commands. And although these commands and tasks are sometimes both physically and mentally challenging, they in no way compare to the stress of being responsible for a slave, a job and a house.

This is what I always have to remind myself of whenever I feel as though Master is not being fair…. it is his job to do the thinking and mine to obey without thought. but let’s get back to the idea that it takes a lot of creativity to be a good Master or Mistress. Without fresh and new ideas of how to torture, test and even please your slave….just as it is with any pet…..things start to become dull and can cause depression in the slave. Slaves are not beyond the human need for mental stimuli and therefore the need for creative ideas in maintaining the sub/dom relationship is vital. Just watch Mistress Ursela as she cages her female slave into…of all things…a shopping cart! Mistress Ursela is not above using everyday objects and things to create new fun ways to play with her pet slave! It is these types of novel ideas that make a good Mistress and Master….like the time that Master decided to saran wrap me when we had no fresh rope left in the house! I think if I had never found Master or rather if Master had never found me, that I would be almost as happy as I am now if I were serving Mistress Ursela!