What is Femdom?

By Slaveduties

Continuing with my past theme of explaining BDSM, I decided to do a little post on Femdom. Female domination, also know as Femdom is a niche within the BDSM realm. The dominant partner in Femdom is always female while the subservient slave can either be another female or a male. Usually, we see Femdom being portrayed as a female dominating a male. It’s important to note that these relationships are always consensual.

Femdom can also refer to Female Supremacy. The concept with this is that the female is not only the domme in the relationship but that she is actually biologically or spiritually superior to the male. In Female Supremacy, the male will call his Mistress ‘Goddess’, because she is in a sense a Goddess that must be worshiped. In some cases the subservient males are called losers instead of slaves to further demonstrate their inferior place on this earth.

Common practices in Female Supremacy involve putting the male in chastity in order to easily train him. This works especially well as a means to obtain the desired behavior from him. Goddess Starla uses this technique on her husband Randy and along with the chastity device she practices tease and denial. The concept is that by having complete control over the male’s ability to orgasm or reach any form of sexual gratification, the male will start to look to his Goddess as the sole person who is able to grant him sexual release. To get that release he will be willing to do whatever is asked of him and will start to think of things that he can do in order to further please his Goddess. Chastity is one of the fastest ways to obtain results in training but it also involves a lot of work on the Goddess’s part since training with a chastity device requires a lot of attention to the male’s penis and the fact that it is in chastity. What I mean is that you cannot simply put a man in chastity and instantly expect him to behave well. Nor can you ignore his chastity or sexual needs. You must continuously draw attention to the fact that he is in chastity and use a lot of teasing to get the results that you want.

As with most BDSM, humiliation can play another important role in mentally breaking down one’s slave. In the case of Femdom, humiliation is done by mocking the size of the penis, using forced sissification (dressing the male up as a girl), using a strapon to have anal sex with the male and by cuckolding him. Cuckolding humiliates the male since he is forced to watch his Goddess have sex with another, better endowed, male while he is usually in chastity and cannot even get himself off while watching.

Other activities of Femdom include foot, shoe or boot worship, cunnilingus, spanking, caning, wax torutre, facesitting and more. All of which involve in some way or the other worshipping the Goddess.  There’s the short explaination of Femdom, hope you enjoyed it! Feel free to add more info with your comments! If you want a good example of Femdom go to Femdombride.com

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