BDSM Dating – The Real Deal (non-fiction)

By Slaveduties

As many of you know, I found my Master through the use of Alt.com – a BDSM dating site used literally by millions. I thought about this site again due to something that happened recently. Master was looking for a female model to shoot for one of his websites. He was contacted by this gorgeous young 22 year old girl, who was interested in working with him. Being the lead-house slave, Master decided to bring me along to the meeting, as it always makes girls a little more comfortable to see another female present.

As it turns out, this girl has been struggling with her fantasies of BDSM for many years…she lost interest in boyfriend after boyfriend because they would not beat her, or pull her hair hard enough while fucking her. Basically – she was just exploring the world of consensual power exchange and was somewhat lost.

This instantly made me think of my own past, and my own struggles with this exact thing…I tried everything, and eventually tried finding someone online – which resulted in, well – the last several years of perfect servitude that satiates my every sick desire! With that in mind, I asked Master for permission to speak (which seemed to turn this girl on a little, I think) – and all I said was "Alt.com" – then my eyes returned back to the floor and I fell silent and obedient again.

The meeting went on, and we parted ways. About a week later, Master got an e-mail, once again from this girl. This time however, she was not the one contacting my Master about shooting…it was HER Master contacting about documenting them! I thought to myself, that I can’t imagine what it must have been like in the days before BDSM dating sites. To think that I could find the perfect Master, and this girl within a few short days find the perfect Master…is just amazing. Now, several months later – she is still his slave, and they are moving in together to live like us…in a 24/7 D/s relationship. My Master has become quite good friends with hers, and have come over for play nights…I’ve hugged this girl, forced to actually…tied together, breasts pressing together, while getting beaten…feeling her body rattle and shake under each blow, and have my own body supported by hers under each flog, cane, and spank.

I don’t know much about money, as being a real lifestyle 24/7 submissive, I don’t have a bank account or any money – or anything really. I don’t own anything, not even myself. But I know spending money is difficult these days…I hear things about the recession, and while my goal in life is to be a mindless tool of a slave, I haven’t quite reached that yet, and can still understand big words like "Recession"! – anyway, my point is, I know it’s difficult to spend money – but honestly, I think the couple of dollars that it costs to join Alt.com, is worth the lifetime of bliss. I never fantasize anymore…because I live my fantasies every day. It was totally worth that price of a pizza those years ago. I know it’ll be worth it for you too!

5 Comments

  1. zoiloland@hotmail.com December 8, 2009, 11:59 pm

    it works?

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  2. Slaveduties December 29, 2009, 3:29 pm

    It did for me :) That’s all I can say!

    Reply
  3. Lily January 1, 2010, 2:44 pm

    Love to join your party….

    Lily

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  4. Siboney November 4, 2010, 1:54 pm

    Lily, I am trying to figure out where I fit into this, I have always been attracted to BDSM, in most of my relations have been submissive to dominant women, but I have also have had experiences were I am the dom, ordering, restraining, roughing it, pushing limits physical and mentally. Some of these girls became extremely promiscious and experimental after our encounters. I am afraid that being married to a dominant personality is bringing out anoter side of me where I need to be the master, with specific scenarios, acts and sequences. How can I become the fully realized master I am feeling develop within me?

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  5. Masters kitten May 17, 2012, 12:56 pm

    i am a long time reader first time commenting i will ask my Master later today if i can creat myself an account here, but i met my Master on collarme.com, but slaveduties, how would i go about contacting you to share my story??????

    Reply

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