Comments on: An Internet Match Making Success

By: Slaveboy

Slaveboy — Tue, 30 Mar 2010 09:36:38 +0000

Hello- I am seeking a master in the st. clair shores, Mi area as soon as possibly so he could make me into his personal slaveboy I will always be in the complete nude 24/7 365 days of a year enjoy being shaven completely bald and hairless for my master if he would like this to happen to his slaveboy.

By: Slaveduties

Slaveduties — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 16:52:00 +0000

Hi New and Wondering, I wanted to say sorry for taking sooo long in getting back to you! I’m not really sure when I first realized that BDSM was the type of lifestyle best fitted for me, Ever since I was first interested in boys I would go out with these verbally abusive alpha male type guys. I guess I had been looking for it from the very start. When I was about 18 I had a best friend who was into BDSM or rather curious about it and I would let him tie me up every once in awhile. Our friendship never lead to anything more, mainly i think because he was also a submissive deep down. But that’s when I first started to understand myself and why I kept throwing myself into these messed up relationships. Because of my friend I started to search the net for BDSM porn and chat groups. The more porn I watched the more I became sure that this is what I had been missing in my life. I guess that’s also why my blog deals with a lot of porn haha. But yeah, at 19 I found myself at my first bondage party and fell absolutely in love with it. I was like one of those people who get their first tattoo and then become obsessed! And I’ve been that way ever since. It’s been a crazy journey and I have learned so much about myself since then, but I have honestly enjoyed every moment of it. You’re lucky if you have discovered this side of yourself early. I’ve met some people who have only figure it out later on in life and have either suppressed it unhealthily or have had their relationships suffer greatly from it. The best of luck to you=)

yours truly,
Slaveduties

By: Átame Corsets

Átame Corsets — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 00:17:51 +0000

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By: New and Wondering

New and Wondering — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 22:34:17 +0000

Slaveduties,

I’ve been an avid reader of your blog for awhile now, and firstly wanted to thank you for opening my eyes to a whole new side of myself.

I’m undoubtedly a submissive. Furthermore, I’m a lesbian, and it has been my experience that it’s very, very hard to find a dominant woman. Fortunately, when I confessed my desires to my girlfriend, I was lucky enough to have someone who was equally intrigued by the possiblity and we are now involved in a D/s relationship, although not 24/7 (it’s something we’re discussing, although our current living situation makes it difficult).

I have joined ALT in search of friends, and I have made quite a few. I was wondering, if you wouldn’t mind telling me, how old you were when you first realized this was the lifestyle you wanted. I seem to be quite a bit younger than everyone I’ve met so far, and some comments have been made about it. My other question is – and this is quite personal, so please don’t feel obligated to answer it in any way – how is your relationship with your family? What I mean is, I saw that you said they don’t know about your lifestyle. Do you visit them? If you do, how does that work?

And, like Curious, I’m very interested in learning about puppygirl. I don’t know if I could take on that role, but I’m not opposed to it either.

Thank you so much. I hope all of you had a lovely Valentine’s day.

Fondly,
New and Wondering

By: Curious and Confused

Curious and Confused — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 05:01:56 +0000

Thank you so much for all your advice, you really helped me figure out so much about myself and this lifestyle through your reply and all of your posts. I am now on ALT and I have met some truly amazing and interesting people to chat with. I just recently got into a relationship with the man I’ve been in love with for a long time, and although we’re currently vanilla if I hadn’t explored this side of myself I would still have many gards up; for the first time I got to be emotionally submissive and trust the way I’ve always wanted to.

I hope it works out, but should it not I have a great group of friends on ALT that I still love talking to and learning from, which keeps me open to future possibilities. It is thanks to you that I have these options and that I now feel secure in having the freedom to act on my desires should I choose to :)

On another note I know that it is because of your Master that you have the experience to give the advice you have given, and I am so happy for both of you that you get to experience this incredible lifestyle. I’m glad you had fun on your shopping trip with Mistress Bella, and I thought it was so amazing of her to dress the both of you up as she did; I felt it promoted an underlying sense of human equality although you are the submissive, which was quite touching. I was so happy to hear about your new pet, I hope Rupert is doing well (the name is so cute!). If you choose to respond would you be allowed or like to let me know how puppygirl is doing? I myself could not live like that but from what I’ve heard about her she seems very content and the concept is quite cute, and as always I am infinately interested in learning more about her and everything you write about!

I wish you, your Master, puppygirl, Rupert, and the house slave (as well as anyone I may have missed) a very happy and adventerous Valentine’s day!