Life as a Slave
by Slaveduties
The life of a slave is degrading and humiliating, by nature. Not having a choice to do what you want, as well as what you do not want to do. When I saw these pictures from ForbiddenEast.com I simply could not help but resist posting about them. They made me feel at home…when I saw them, I related to them on an extremely deep level. Life as a slave is all about having one’s mind broken – to become something less than human, at least for Master and I, and many BDSM couples we know.
This poor Japanese slave is bound and put outside to be hosed down by her Master. Her pussy and asshole suffer under the obviously cold and powerful stream of the hose. Her humanity is lost in the humiliation, her pain is obvious. I’ve felt such similar abuse, such similar degradation…the psychology behind this simple act goes a long way to breaking the slave’s very mind. Using acts such as this, the slave is effectively being trained to understand and believe that they are no longer on the same level, or equal to other people.
Giving away the equality may come willingly at first, it did for me – but at one point, human survival instinct kicks in, and at that point, the loss of
equality, the belief in equality must be taken forcefully. It’s not an easy process, it wasn’t even for me – who is completely and absolutely submissive. Only through extreme acts of pain, humiliation, and degradation can you break down the mind, and then build it back up as the Master sees fit. If you click the “More…” link below you’ll see more pictures from this gallery – you’ll see at the end that the Master shoves her back in the dirty, effectively making her dirty again – I believe psychologically that he is training her to understand that she is always dirty, she is always at his mercy and under his control – that she cannot be clean of his ownership. She is left there cold and shivering in the dirt, coming to the realization that she is sub-human…she is an owned object, a slave.
These are huge themes in the Japanese BDSM culture. Absolute submission, and not simple “playtime” are a recurring theme. ForbiddenEast.com in my opinion did an amazing job of making me very aware, both through the thousands of pictures and videos, but also through the huge library of literature they have contained within the Members Area. It made me feel so very at home, and comfortable – because I was in a place I knew I belonged. They have so much content there that has never been seen anywhere else, except perhaps in the Japanese underground. This is the first site that showcases this particular massive amount of content to a non-Japanese audience.
Follow me after the break to see the rest of the Gallery with this Japanese slave being tormented by Master’s garden hose.
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How does one move past the fight/flight stage? Does someone have to finally mentally accept it? When my Master does things to break me i fight him and want to run, however I eventually accept what has happened maybe a week later. How do we get past that?
There is no easy answer, I don’t think…you have to face it all up front, and accept it. Only once you’ve accomplished that will you truly feel like you belong to him. It has to get worse before it gets better, but I assure you it will get better! In fact, someday you will actually yearn for these feelings again…the nervous anxiety, the newness of it all. Enjoy it, appreciate it, and take your time with it!
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I guess for me, being new to the bdsm to this extent, it is more like, How can she mentally take it. Physically its torture but after a while it becomes nature, but mentally when she doe’s something wrong to “earn” Her punishment how does she take it. Me myself never having a master, yet, I have to look at it more of a how can you accept it. Hmm, let me put it this way, How does the mental abuse not mess with her mind, I am trying to learn about this before I get into it to deeply so it could be just an experience but, How does she mentally always know he is loving, in love, or even cares for her and he isn’t some sadist mongrel?
Master wants to fuck another woman and then bring me His used Cock to clean up for Him with my mouth. He also wants me to lick and suck another woman’s pussy in His presence. Today He told me He had chatted briefly with a sub who expressed an interest in sucking His Cock, and i got very upset. W/we have discussed these scenarios many times, and Master patiently and lovingly reassures me that the reason He wants these things is to prove to both of U/us that W/we will not love each other any less afterwards, and in fact may love each other more. i identify as completely straight and have a very hard time imagining *not* fighting against Master’s suggestions. How can i let go of my fear and rebelliousness, and trust Him to lead me? i want to be the best slut slave i can be for Him, but i do *not* want to be “broken” as you describe here.
Delving into new territory is never easy. You can expect to get jealous, don’t be surprised when you are – but keep in mind it’s perfectly normal. I was awfully jealous the first time Master was with other women, but having me watch and participate made me a part of it, and therefore it made me far less jealous.
Just keep in mind that if you are truly trying to go down this path, then you must be willing to go into uncharted territory with your Master, you must obey him even when you don’t like it – you can ask questions and deliberate whether it is worth going on or not after, but you will never truly submit until you begin doing things you don’t necessarily want.
Of course, every relationship is different, every person is different – each sub and dom is different – it completely depends what you want. I can only speak from experience, and my own life, so analyze your own desires and take it from there :)
Thank you so much for your prompt and heartfelt answer, Slaveduties. i’m starting to realize that a lot of the tension in O/our relationship comes from the fact that i have always envisioned BDSM to be full of bondage, clamps, flogging, caning, and lots of sex – all stuff that i really like! – and i have imposed those expectations onto my relationship with Master. my preconceived notions have made it very hard for me to submit to things i *don’t* like. Thank you again, Slaveduties – your posts are really giving me something to think about, and i believe Master will be pleased with my improved attitude.
Keep in mind that your relationship is consensual. If there is anything you absolutely genuinely do not want to do, then don’t do it. A submissive can have limits… going through with your Master being with another woman may destroy your relationship if you genuinely do not want it to happen. To me his saying he wants to prove your love for each other can handle anything etc is a bullshit excuse for him to enjoy fucking another woman… unless he’s willing to share you with another man, too!
I am shared with plenty of other men :)
Aha, well in that case then I’m a lot happier with the idea of it happening… although you may have already done it since it’s been several months since your first post! :) Did you end up doing it? If you haven’t then maybe you could try something a little less full on first up and see how that goes, perhaps you and the other female sub both sucking your Master’s cock at the same time… a bit of girl on girl kissing during it. Unless you’ve already done that too! :)
Well I’m new…on here though I discovered your site in 2007 and loved it so much that i myself became a slave in the lifestyle and am thinking about moving in with my Master in a 24/7 relationship.My questions are…(one cause it seems like there are no blogs on here and I don’t know how to start a new forum just to vent haha,)When did you move into your Master’s house..and how long did you know each other when you took that step?Did he ask you to be his slave or did you ask him?I’m rather nervous but really excited about moving into my Masters house.And I wanted to send an email…but…I don’t know who to send it to.
im not happy i tryed many times to post my name and yahoo messager and even my cell phone in reponse i wanted to get a chance to serve a dominant woman this is my dream in the san franciso bay area i wish some one would give me a chance im very sad and feel bad i wrote many times and nothing sign mark
How do you become a slave ? the lifestyle sounds very interesting.
Hello and thank you for an interesting site. i am in a M/s relationship with my Master and i am soon to be collared. i just wanted to share a slightly different prospective on the Masters view of the slave.
my Master has no wish to degrade me and brake me to reinforce the fact im his property as you suggest is common place in the M/s experience. my Master seeks to build me up and encourage me to be all that i can be, though yes of course some of that involves me doing thinsg that i do not particulary want to do, but he helps me through this in a positive constructive way.
Maybe im just lucky that my Master takes his role very seriously and adopts a role which is more akin to leadership rather than forcibly breaking his slaves.
interesting, and I want to explore this bdsm lifestyle
I’ve been the property of my husband for six years. He has broken me of any thought of disobedience. I am his fuck toy, serving wench, pet, what ever he wishes me to be. I can’t imagine being anything other than his.
“Life as a slave is all about having one’s mind broken” – this rung so true for me. i have given myself to Master, but i find my myself fighting with what i had to be growing up. i had to be strong because of what my father did to me and just living in that house. i couldnt be weak, i had to take control. and now i find it hard to get rid of that part of me. i dont want to be that person anymore. i love Master and i love serving Him. i hate that scared little girl that still comes out now and then and i dont know how to get rid of her.
I am very new and love my Master so much. I feel I am not serving well enough. I just released from prison (6 years) and my family is needing a lot of attention. They do not know of my lifestyle choice and would be mortified if they knew. Master and I have known each other for 6 months and plan on moving together by January. I need to be broken and i know this will take many long hours because i am a fighter, fiesty and a spoiled brat. I have always gotten what i want and now i can’t seem to tell my family that after six years of being away i want to move on from them. Do you have some good advice for that?
Could you also help me with begging? I can’t seem to get this right. I whine a lot and Master hates this, while I like the punishment I don’t want to displease. Are there a few phrases i can use that don’t contain please.
oops had to change email address. i was alsea from 26 october