Comments on: Questions and Answers – Continued http://slaveduties.com/2010/07/07/questions-and-answers-continued/ A lifestyle BDSM blog Sun, 20 May 2012 22:36:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: mintless http://slaveduties.com/2010/07/07/questions-and-answers-continued/comment-page-1/#comment-4978 mintless Tue, 22 Feb 2011 18:14:09 +0000 http://www.slaveduties.com/?p=1120#comment-4978 I'm a Dom but I'm really so new to it. Reading your site has helped. I would like a slave, I have so much to learn. Its a little scary just because its still so new to me. I’m a Dom but I’m really so new to it. Reading your site has helped. I would like a slave, I have so much to learn. Its a little scary just because its still so new to me.

]]> By: neha http://slaveduties.com/2010/07/07/questions-and-answers-continued/comment-page-1/#comment-4884 neha Sat, 05 Feb 2011 01:45:05 +0000 http://www.slaveduties.com/?p=1120#comment-4884 i want to be a slave commited one i want to be a slave commited one

]]> By: agathaarmstrong http://slaveduties.com/2010/07/07/questions-and-answers-continued/comment-page-1/#comment-4676 agathaarmstrong Mon, 18 Oct 2010 19:03:47 +0000 http://www.slaveduties.com/?p=1120#comment-4676 i have been reading your blog -what an amazing creature you are and someone that i will most certainly look up to. i am a new slave. i found my Master a week ago after so many years of search, and on Wednesday is when we meet. we have spoken for hours on the telephone - He being kind and patient - i being excited and nervous. i no longer have any reservations at all - i am excited and feel very at peace - i belong soul and spirit to my Master and on Wednesday He will also own my body - but oh, i am so so terrified of letting him down, disappointing him - i wonder to myself, can i actually do this - my chance has come and what if a) i completely bottle it, or b) c) d) and so on...... He has been good and kind, i have my positions and my rules, all of which i know by heart - by i also know that when it comes to the crunch - everything will fly out of my head - Please, this new slave would be so very appreciative of some advice - i have agreed to meet with him in a dungeon, the dungeon master is going to undress me and redress me, and put me into a position that my Master has requested - when i am ready, he will then come to claim me - i have been reading your blog -what an amazing creature you are and someone that i will most certainly look up to. i am a new slave. i found my Master a week ago after so many years of search, and on Wednesday is when we meet. we have spoken for hours on the telephone – He being kind and patient – i being excited and nervous. i no longer have any reservations at all – i am excited and feel very at peace – i belong soul and spirit to my Master and on Wednesday He will also own my body – but oh, i am so so terrified of letting him down, disappointing him – i wonder to myself, can i actually do this – my chance has come and what if a) i completely bottle it, or b) c) d) and so on…… He has been good and kind, i have my positions and my rules, all of which i know by heart – by i also know that when it comes to the crunch – everything will fly out of my head – Please, this new slave would be so very appreciative of some advice – i have agreed to meet with him in a dungeon, the dungeon master is going to undress me and redress me, and put me into a position that my Master has requested – when i am ready, he will then come to claim me -

]]> By: Saria http://slaveduties.com/2010/07/07/questions-and-answers-continued/comment-page-1/#comment-4658 Saria Mon, 04 Oct 2010 19:33:31 +0000 http://www.slaveduties.com/?p=1120#comment-4658 I'm looking at your site...... and have so many questions...... you said you are Masters toilet??? Do you all know how unsafe that is to have someone urinating and deficating in your mouth? See, I wouldn't mind being tied up lightly and maybe blindfolded so I can't see what kind of caress or kiss or soft love nips and such were coming so it'd be more erotic, but being physically harmed and made to be gang raped by tons of men? That to me would be something I'd have to put my foot down and say no to. I'd be a better sub than dom as I'd start giggling trying to tell someone what to do and that I can NOT make another person suffer or be in pain; I'd cry, personally..... But I'm just trying to understand how someone who is a human with feelings, equal rights and so on feels that eating someones piss and shit is safe, normal, okay and ... my gods. That... you're a human being! A free person! Not a toilet! You're going to suffer horrifying disease you could die from, hon! Being tied up and spanked gently and love nips are one thing. Getting E-coli, aids and so on is another. Sweetie, you're worth so much more than that. Being beaten and stuff isn't the answer. You're your own person with rights, choices, and a gift of life. I know you think you're happy but.... being a toilet for another human? It's like he's saying you're nothing but a waste holder. They don't even do that in the horrible 3rd world countries where women don't even HAVE rights! hugs. I’m looking at your site…… and have so many questions…… you said you are Masters toilet??? Do you all know how unsafe that is to have someone urinating and deficating in your mouth? See, I wouldn’t mind being tied up lightly and maybe blindfolded so I can’t see what kind of caress or kiss or soft love nips and such were coming so it’d be more erotic, but being physically harmed and made to be gang raped by tons of men? That to me would be something I’d have to put my foot down and say no to. I’d be a better sub than dom as I’d start giggling trying to tell someone what to do and that I can NOT make another person suffer or be in pain; I’d cry, personally….. But I’m just trying to understand how someone who is a human with feelings, equal rights and so on feels that eating someones piss and shit is safe, normal, okay and … my gods. That… you’re a human being! A free person! Not a toilet! You’re going to suffer horrifying disease you could die from, hon! Being tied up and spanked gently and love nips are one thing. Getting E-coli, aids and so on is another. Sweetie, you’re worth so much more than that. Being beaten and stuff isn’t the answer. You’re your own person with rights, choices, and a gift of life. I know you think you’re happy but…. being a toilet for another human? It’s like he’s saying you’re nothing but a waste holder. They don’t even do that in the horrible 3rd world countries where women don’t even HAVE rights! hugs.

]]> By: purple slave http://slaveduties.com/2010/07/07/questions-and-answers-continued/comment-page-1/#comment-4655 purple slave Sun, 03 Oct 2010 09:36:16 +0000 http://www.slaveduties.com/?p=1120#comment-4655 i've been about 5 years as a slave. At 1st i kept changing Masters but it's been a year after i signed as a permanent slave to a Master. Even i just met Him 2 weeks before i made the decision but i just knew that He is the One. Everyday is a learning and training day since He is a very demanding Master, (i think all Dom are demanding,don't they?), but i try to love and enjoy the proccess. He loves bondage and whipping but He doesn't like seeing me orgasms to often. So now, i may have that once a month, if He decided not to give, it means i must wait for next month. The rest i must hold the orgasms. When i failed then He will punish me Now it's been 3 months after my last orgasms. Even almost everynight He brings me to the edge. Im His domestic slave, sex slave and pet slave to Him. But to His friends, im a pain slave that i must endure long session of torture. Once i failed to please His friends then He punished me of humiliate Him in front of His friends. So, being a slave i think its a huge decision with a huge responsibilities too. i’ve been about 5 years as a slave. At 1st i kept changing Masters but it’s been a year after i signed as a permanent slave to a Master. Even i just met Him 2 weeks before i made the decision but i just knew that He is the One.
Everyday is a learning and training day since He is a very demanding Master, (i think all Dom are demanding,don’t they?), but i try to love and enjoy the proccess. He loves bondage and whipping but He doesn’t like seeing me orgasms to often. So now, i may have that once a month, if He decided not to give, it means i must wait for next month. The rest i must hold the orgasms. When i failed then He will punish me
Now it’s been 3 months after my last orgasms. Even almost everynight He brings me to the edge. Im His domestic slave, sex slave and pet slave to Him. But to His friends, im a pain slave that i must endure long session of torture. Once i failed to please His friends then He punished me of humiliate Him in front of His friends.
So, being a slave i think its a huge decision with a huge responsibilities too.

]]> By: More Lifestyle BDSM Questions Answered http://slaveduties.com/2010/07/07/questions-and-answers-continued/comment-page-1/#comment-4598 More Lifestyle BDSM Questions Answered Mon, 13 Sep 2010 17:28:34 +0000 http://www.slaveduties.com/?p=1120#comment-4598 [...] #2 Questions and Answers Continued [...] [...] #2 Questions and Answers Continued [...]

]]> By: tristesse http://slaveduties.com/2010/07/07/questions-and-answers-continued/comment-page-1/#comment-4464 tristesse Thu, 22 Jul 2010 20:35:35 +0000 http://www.slaveduties.com/?p=1120#comment-4464 I have a few questions, also, as one interested in leading a 24/7 relationship (as a slave of course! I am no where near as smart or commanding or brave and strong as a Master could be) (: 1) Are you still going to be shelved and boxed permanently when you reach 30/when you are no longer deemed useful? 2) You are allowed to speak again, I presume? If not, how do you do it? How DID you not speak for 9+ months? I'm not sure I could give that up. 3) Are your permanent body modifications still on-going? What has been happening in that regard? 4) When did you become sure that your Master is the one you would like to have for life? (This might be a repeat, sorry if it is, but I am struggling with this myself. Sometimes I feel he's the one I can take it to the 24/7 level with, but sometimes, I'm uncertain...) 5) Is there any age you consider to young to do BDSM play? (after they've reached sexual maturity, of course!) 6) How did you get rid of your gag reflex? I'm trying to train mine, but it doesn't seem to be working as well as I hoped it would... 7) What if your parents decided to come visit? What would you/your Master do? 8) I find (when I do submit within the context of a scene) that I'm a rather bratty submissive. Is there any way to cure this? (I think it's perhaps I want the punishment, and my Master does not punish me enough... He is too forgiving.) 9) If you were given a completely free day (no collar, dress how ever you want, go anywhere you want) what would you do? Or would you just be horribly confused? lol :) 10) Do you have a safe word? Are you allowed to use it? If you're feeling sick, or under the weather, what would your Master do? 11) Last one: what would your Master do if you got pregnant? (Hey, accidents happen. I'm here because of one such accident ;) ) I'm honestly curious about the dynamic in a 24/7 relationship, and whether it would work for me. Thank you in advance for taking the time to answer my questions. I love your blog, I've read through the entire thing in the past few weeks, just masturbating and alternately wishing for a life like yours! (Also, have you ever done scat play? I would love to suck my Masters dick and drink his sweet urine, but the idea just turns him off entirely, but the more I read about it, the more toilet slavery gets me wet! [Well, maybe not scat play...]) :) Take care! ~tris I have a few questions, also, as one interested in leading a 24/7 relationship (as a slave of course! I am no where near as smart or commanding or brave and strong as a Master could be) (:
1) Are you still going to be shelved and boxed permanently when you reach 30/when you are no longer deemed useful?
2) You are allowed to speak again, I presume? If not, how do you do it? How DID you not speak for 9+ months? I’m not sure I could give that up.
3) Are your permanent body modifications still on-going? What has been happening in that regard?
4) When did you become sure that your Master is the one you would like to have for life? (This might be a repeat, sorry if it is, but I am struggling with this myself. Sometimes I feel he’s the one I can take it to the 24/7 level with, but sometimes, I’m uncertain…)
5) Is there any age you consider to young to do BDSM play? (after they’ve reached sexual maturity, of course!)
6) How did you get rid of your gag reflex? I’m trying to train mine, but it doesn’t seem to be working as well as I hoped it would…
7) What if your parents decided to come visit? What would you/your Master do?
8) I find (when I do submit within the context of a scene) that I’m a rather bratty submissive. Is there any way to cure this? (I think it’s perhaps I want the punishment, and my Master does not punish me enough… He is too forgiving.)
9) If you were given a completely free day (no collar, dress how ever you want, go anywhere you want) what would you do? Or would you just be horribly confused? lol :)
10) Do you have a safe word? Are you allowed to use it? If you’re feeling sick, or under the weather, what would your Master do?
11) Last one: what would your Master do if you got pregnant? (Hey, accidents happen. I’m here because of one such accident ;) )
I’m honestly curious about the dynamic in a 24/7 relationship, and whether it would work for me. Thank you in advance for taking the time to answer my questions. I love your blog, I’ve read through the entire thing in the past few weeks, just masturbating and alternately wishing for a life like yours! (Also, have you ever done scat play? I would love to suck my Masters dick and drink his sweet urine, but the idea just turns him off entirely, but the more I read about it, the more toilet slavery gets me wet! [Well, maybe not scat play...]) :) Take care! ~tris

]]> By: redsub http://slaveduties.com/2010/07/07/questions-and-answers-continued/comment-page-1/#comment-4445 redsub Mon, 12 Jul 2010 06:32:05 +0000 http://www.slaveduties.com/?p=1120#comment-4445 I just found your site a bit ago via google.. you have lots of interesting posts, I've enjoyed them so far. I do have a question though--you mention being used by multiple men.. do they typically use condoms? Or do you rely on birth control and your Master's judgement to be safe from diseases/unwanted pregnancy? I just found your site a bit ago via google.. you have lots of interesting posts, I’ve enjoyed them so far. I do have a question though–you mention being used by multiple men.. do they typically use condoms? Or do you rely on birth control and your Master’s judgement to be safe from diseases/unwanted pregnancy?

]]> By: Slaveduties http://slaveduties.com/2010/07/07/questions-and-answers-continued/comment-page-1/#comment-4442 Slaveduties Sat, 10 Jul 2010 13:34:02 +0000 http://www.slaveduties.com/?p=1120#comment-4442 Kind of a hard question to answer... I have dangled 20 feet in the air from a tree by one ankle, with my hands in a reverse prayer position behind my back. Many would consider that not-safe, but I know Master's knots are designed in such a way as to be physically impossible to let go. So it depends on what you think of safe, I guess. I've been branded, which did permanent physical damage to my body, so technically that isn't safe either. I've been drowned many times, that probably was pretty unsafe. I am fucked in all my holes by many men, which is probably the unsafest of them all...even if Master has insisted to see the paper's of their tests, there is a chance. So...I guess to answer your question, yes I do un-safe things. that being said, I don't recommend them to anyone. Safety should be the #1 priority in all BDSM play sessions. We take every precaution and they are calculated risks, ones we feel very confident in. Kind of a hard question to answer…

I have dangled 20 feet in the air from a tree by one ankle, with my hands in a reverse prayer position behind my back. Many would consider that not-safe, but I know Master’s knots are designed in such a way as to be physically impossible to let go.

So it depends on what you think of safe, I guess. I’ve been branded, which did permanent physical damage to my body, so technically that isn’t safe either. I’ve been drowned many times, that probably was pretty unsafe. I am fucked in all my holes by many men, which is probably the unsafest of them all…even if Master has insisted to see the paper’s of their tests, there is a chance.

So…I guess to answer your question, yes I do un-safe things. that being said, I don’t recommend them to anyone. Safety should be the #1 priority in all BDSM play sessions. We take every precaution and they are calculated risks, ones we feel very confident in.

]]> By: Slaveduties http://slaveduties.com/2010/07/07/questions-and-answers-continued/comment-page-1/#comment-4441 Slaveduties Sat, 10 Jul 2010 13:27:53 +0000 http://www.slaveduties.com/?p=1120#comment-4441 For exactly this purpose, Master decided that once we realized how serious this was, we got legally married. No reception, no party...just for the paper. He wanted me to know that I was protected, that as little of a human being that I still am - that he could not put me on the street, because he knows...he knows all too well that I would be lost. I wouldn't know what to do. I haven't lived in the "real world" for years. I'm still relatively young, and in my 20's - so I guess I would adapt, but regardless...it would be very difficult. He very well could've easily not gotten married to me for this purpose...it's not a real marriage after all, and I would be with him and love him equally if he hadn't...but that's the type of Man and Master he is. He is not evil, he is my protector :) For exactly this purpose, Master decided that once we realized how serious this was, we got legally married. No reception, no party…just for the paper. He wanted me to know that I was protected, that as little of a human being that I still am – that he could not put me on the street, because he knows…he knows all too well that I would be lost. I wouldn’t know what to do. I haven’t lived in the “real world” for years. I’m still relatively young, and in my 20′s – so I guess I would adapt, but regardless…it would be very difficult.

He very well could’ve easily not gotten married to me for this purpose…it’s not a real marriage after all, and I would be with him and love him equally if he hadn’t…but that’s the type of Man and Master he is. He is not evil, he is my protector :)

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