Member Submission: Rose Found her Master

Dear Slaveduties,

I’m writing to you because you asked us to share any stories we may have of successfully in finding a BDSM partner online awhile back. At the time that you had written about Alt.com, I had yet to really find anyone who was willing to have a hardcore play session with me. I’m a girl and have had plenty of boyfriends but none of them ever seemed to understand what I meant when I asked them to dominate me. They thought that pulling my hair and slapping my ass once in awhile was what I wanted and I found I was always too embarrassed to outright tell them what exactly it was that I wanted them to do. Eventually I started kind of screening my boyfriends, asking them if they were into anything kinky or if they liked to dominate their partners, still though once we wound up in bed, their idea of being dominating was the complete opposite of mine. I don’t know what it is about vanilla people and their thinking that some hair pulling, deep throating and ass slapping is equivalent to BDSM….sigh…

But I’m not about to go rambling on about that! What I wanted to talk about was how I used Alt.com to find my past couple of partners and have even managed to find a pretty solid relationship with my newest Master; we’ve been together for a couple of months now.  I live in a fairly small town, so obviously we don’t have much of a BDSM club scene or anything like that besides the local watering hole. That’s why I was kind of excited to see how easy it was to search for people who live pretty close to you on Alt, it makes it so much easier to be friends with people who you actually have a reasonable chance of meeting in real life! The first couple of times I met people for play dates I was very nervous! I did take a lot of precautions to ensure that I would be safe at all time, I even arranged for my friend to call me midway through most of my dates just to make sure everything was okay. Call me paranoid, but I really believe in personal safety coming first! Anyways, I did enjoy myself on my first couple of encounters, mainly because I was finally getting a chance to experience real BDSM with some men who enjoyed it as much as me. Yet, I still found that I just didn’t have a spark with any of them, until I met my Master, a european looking flawless man who has become my new God. . Master lives about an hour away from me, so it really isn’t too hard to see him pretty often. It may sound corny but by my third date with Master, I was not only absolutely smitten for him but I had this burning desire to throw myself at his feet in servitude. We didn’t even engaged in any BDSM until our fourth date and by then I was more than ready to do anything he asked of me.

I never thought I would be able to find someone who I can so wholly devote myself to. Not only is he everything I look for in a boyfriend but our chemistry is out of this world. When we play, it is not always sexual as it was with all of my other so called dominant boyfriends, and this is something which which I love! I love being able to give myself over to him completely and know that he’s not doing it because he expects sex from it but simply because it’s something he enjoys.

I know I am very lucky to have found someone like Master in my life but I also know that I could just as easily still be trying to find what I was looking for in one of my hometown boys, miserable and unable to understand why none of them can give me what I am looking for. I’m so happy that I took your advice and went to Alt.com! So thank you for that! Also I wanted to say to your other readers to not give up hope. I think you just have to take action. You need to actively look for the person or the relationship that you are so craving. You can’t just sit on your butt and expect it to come to you!

Oh and also I wanted to tell you how much I love your blog, I always get so excited when I see that you’ve made a new post! Thanks for sharing your life with us!

humbly yours,

Slave Rose