Irrational Fears in BDSM

It’s easy for one’s irrational fears to come to the forefront when our primary sense is removed from us, in a BDSM situation…indeed likely in just about any situation at all. When we cannot see, our brains seem to automatically try and fill in the blanks, generally with our worst fears. Despite knowing we are in a safe environment, we just seem to fill in the void that the lack of our eyesight with fear. I’m not sure why it is, but ultimately – I’m kind of glad for it. It gets my heart racing, it gets my pussy wet, it makes me breath hard and panic a little.

Why I love these things, I don’t know – but I was checking out Wasteland.com’s new BDSM videos – as I do – and I couldn’t help but have to put my fingers between my legs. I know exactly what Slave Ava is feeling, despite knowing she is in a safe environment…it’s frustrating. You don’t know where the pain is going to land, you don’t know when it’s going to come. You just know it’s going to come…and this results in a constant fear and tension that is quite honestly exhausting, but at the same time is so intensely fulfilling. Maybe I’m a bit of an adrenaline junky in this sense, but things that get my heart rate up, things that push my limits are the things I love. Thankfully I have a Master that can dole out such experiences seemingly with little to no effort at all.

I’m also a huge fan of Wasteland.com because they are such good friends of ours, and I thoroughly enjoy their unique brand of content. I know how authentic it is because I’ve been there, I’ve been present during some of their shoots. I know the tears are real, I know the pain is real, because I’ve helped console a slave after her painful session. It was a tremendous honor to do so, and it is amazing that as an organization they know how to take care of the people they work with, whether I am there or not, their reputation for care and passion for safe, sane, consensual BDSM is absolutely sterling.