Things I love about BDSM: Over-Stimulation

Over-stimulation is a very fine line. It has the ability to put you in a very bad place, or the most amazing of places…and both of those places have a lot of value to a dominant. Sometimes, during a legitimate training session, in which Master is trying to break a habit out of me, correcting me, breaking my spirit to further my submissive downward-spiral as it were, he wants to put me in a very negative place…a place I want to exit from as soon as possible. Over-stimulation during this type of corrective or adjustment sessions is brutal because it’s too much, too fast, and the worse part is that you simply never know when it will end. When you have mutliple sensations attacking you from different angles what ends up happening is your brain sort of fritz’s out (That’s the scientific term by the way).

During these times and directly after is when mental reconstruction works the best, because I am like putty…maleable in the hands of Master. He can adjust me over multiple sessions – and I feel like it’s because my brain has shut down and went into a primal state, which in some sense kind of like a survival mechanism. To deal with the pain, the pleasure, the over-stimulation of my senses, my brain must shut off – and thus…I am a lot easier to influence. I know this because I have many things "adjusted" over the years….bad habits changed, ideas changed, submission brought to a whole new level. I will recognize it sometime later, thinking about something differently…remembering to change the toilet paper rolls for example…I had missed one once which resulted in a session that focused on nothing but my desire to change toilet paper rolls…I am not fanatical, almost OCD about changing them.

On the other hand…and this is extremely difficult to do, but I think it comes from experience and Master just knowing my body so intimately and masterfully that he can put me in an over-stimulated state and I just never want to leave. My brain shuts off in the same way, but it’s done in such a pleasurable way that literally hours can pass and I have no idea.

I think both are forms of "sub-space" as we call it, but as a direct result of multiple sensations attacking you simultaneously. Having your clit stimulated, a dildo in your pussy, in your ass, nipples being pulled hard, wax dripping down you, clamps on your sides, being asked questions, suspended upside down…your brain has to allocate resources to all of those different sensations…both pleasurable and painful. It is an amazing sensation and browsing through some of Wasteland.com’s videos I remember this one vividly of Slave Giselle and her several experiences with Goddess Starla and in this particular video with a Master who asked to remain masked…she got completely over-stimulated, and fell into a sub-space I am all too familiar with, and I could see in her eyes that she becomes absolutely malleable – it’s an absolute treat to watch!

So…another thing I love about BDSM…over-stimulation! Go check out Wasteland.com and watch a bunch more of Giselle, she is GORGEOUS, and they do an amazing job of taking her to the edge…pushing her right off, then being there at the bottom to catch her!