Goddess Starla Vlogs to Slaveduties Community!
This is a first for me, and I’m a little bit flustered to be honest! It is a great honor for me for my good friend Goddess Starla to directly address our community here in her first Vlog episode!
I love the fact that Goddess Starla embraces who she is, she is honest and up front, she addresses the fact that some people just don’t like female domination. That is an absolutely fair point, no one is putting a gun to anyone’s head to enjoy female domination…she doesn’t come out defending herself or offended. I *love* that – she makes no apologies for who she is…because at the end of the day, literally millions of people want to kneel at her feet and do enjoy the femdom lifestyle.
Femdom is a two-way street…it is give and take. No one forces a slave into their position – slavery is given to a dominant. Only someone who doesn’t understand the desire to be submissive would critique the BDSM lifestyle, but I understand the backlash, it’s not what society typically considers “the norm” and traditionally women are usually in a subservient place. I can also understand being a female submissive and seeing a male be dominated…it can grind against our general undestanding of how we think the world works. But the reality is there are as many kinks, fetishes, sexual orientations, as there are people on this planet.
I want this place to be open and safe for people to comment. I nor Goddess Starla are angry at ‘masterslilbitch’ for her comment, free speech is valued here – but that doesn’t mean I have to agree either, nor the method or language of delivery. I post about what I’m interested in, I promote and help my friends with the gift that you guys have all given me in visiting this website, I post about whatever comes to my mind…it’s just me, this blog is a way for me to express myself, talk about things that are important to me and again, help my friends if I can.
I remember someone told me once “As long as there are at least two people on this earth, there will be conflict” – meaning, it’s impossible for anyone to agree on everything. I expect there to be conflict in this community, I expect there to be debates, different opinions…I WANT that. That’s what makes a great community, however respect should be the platform unto which all of that is delivered. Just because it’s a free and open forum doesn’t mean you should be insulting either. ConstructiveÂ criticism, just like Goddess Starla says in the vlog is perfectly acceptable…if you don’t like something, or don’t agree with something – please voice that opinion…but do it in a way in which it can be takenÂ constructively and debated. I for one have literally no idea what “one sided femdom th SD posts” means lol…
Anyway…this community is amazing, you are all amazing, everyone has their own personality and opinion and that’s what makes this all so great. I want to THANK everyone who constructively defended both Starla and slaveduties.com – not because you don’t want someone with a different opinion, but rather how that opinion was stated. I love that, and it means so much to me!
As a final thought, no one will ever be banned by me or the mods for having an unpopular opinion. However, I do expect people to at the very least have some respect. If most people knew what goes into making a website, especially a porn website cranking out content every week – the sheer amount of hard work involved, I think most people would be surprised. I know everyone thinks anyone is porn drives a Ferrari and sleeps on piles of money but the absolute opposite is actually true. The entire industry has essentially collapsed due to a plethora of reasons I won’t go into (unless you guys want me to, I can in a seperate post just let me know in the comments), but just know that people like Goddess Starla have a passion for it, and love doing it, despite the 80+ hours of work every week :)
I love you all!