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Dominating Girls Vs. Boys

I read a post on the blog of Goddess Starla of FemdomBride.com (it’s in her member’s area so I can’t post a link to it) about what she finds the differences are between dominating women vs. men whom have an interest in BDSM – and it prompted me to make a forum post about it – but then I figured it’d be nice to make a post about it! Basically she goes on to say that there are some pretty stark differences between the two. She mentions that men can be much easier to manipulate and handle because if you control their cock and balls – you basically control them as a whole. She keeps her sissy husband in chastity, except when she lets him out to ruin an orgasm or tease him – which allows her that complete and utter control over him 24/7. With females though, she thinks it can be a little different and requires more of a challenge mentally.

I would tend to agree with the statement that women can be more difficult (there are exceptions of course). I’m a bit of a horny slut as many of you know, so I watch a lot of porn – and I always notice that the girls tend to be much more snarky than the boys when being dominated. I myself was never like that – I am a very willing submissive, and never talk-back…especially now after having been so broken into. But I do like to see a girl be broken from a snarky difficult slave, into a prim and properly broken one!

Male slaves though, especially ones like Starla’s sissy husband who are kept in chastity for the vast majority of their life – especially if they have submissive tendencies become moresubmissive the hornier they get. So keeping them in chastity keeps them horny…it’s a vicious circle of domination, one that Starla uses in perfect harmony with her caring and loving attitude towards her beloved sissy husband.

Goddess Starla does go on to say though that while there are stark differences between the two, that there is one huge and very meaningful similarity. She says that you get a lot more out of your slave when they are kept aroused. That is absolutely true and anyone that has ever played with BDSM knows that very very well. A horny slave is a better slave. However this is where the two genders part ways again…it is a lot easier to keep a man horny than it is a woman (in general) – I personally am always horny, so I don’t really count – but in general…it’s much easier to get “user feedback” from men, because it’s pretty easy to see visually when their cock is hard. With women everything gets a little trickier.

So this begs the question, do you prefer a challenging slave, or an immediately obedient slave (whether it be male or female)? Let us know in the comments or in the forum post I already started!