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An Internet Match Making Success

Being  into BDSM can be hard on your personal relationships, trust me I know. Once you finally realize that what you really want is not just rough sex but an honest and stern Master, or maybe that you love licking feet, or like to tie people up, the world around you changes. What happens to that girlfriend or boyfriend that you are already with if they don’t accept your wants and desires? Do you blow it off and pretend like you are happy or do you leave the security of your old life and try to find a new one that will fulfill those desires? I’ve seen so many people hide who they are from loved ones and yet they would sneak around behind their partner’s back to get whipped by professional doms. Much like cheating, sneaking around to get whipped and spanked is not right. So many people think that ti is impossible to find someone with whom they can connect and who will share the same fetishes as them. I want to say to all of you non-believers that this isn’t so. You can find someone who will love you as well as take care of your darker side of desire. It’s not easy and sometimes it involves a bit of compromising, but hell what relationship doesn’t?!

I received an email this morning from Subguysissy, who had taken my advice on going to Alt.com and trying to find someone with whom he could play. He had previously been in a serious relationship but when he was comfortable enough to talk about his fantasies his girlfriend completely rejected them. She refused to be the dominant one and even said to him that what she wanted was a ‘man’ and not someone who was weak. Given the horrible ultimatum of pretending to be a manly man all the time or splitting ways so that he could find someone who would understand him better, he made the hard choice of leaving her. I’m a girl and a slave and so I can relate on the submissive level with him. I can related to the fact that you wish and pray that your partner would just spank you harder, you think that maybe you can change them or that they will change and be the dominant Master/ Mistress that you crave and need, but instead you wind up just experiencing rough sex that leaves you ultimately unsatisfied.I’ve been there. I’ve been told by a certain ex-boyfriend that I need to seek psychological help, that I am not normal. I’ve scared boys away after having told them what I really wanted. But you know what, tired as I may have been, so tired that I even considered the fact that maybe they are right and that maybe I should just keep all of this locked deep inside of me, I never did give up hope of finding someone  who would get me. I have to admit that stumbling upon Alt.com was an accident. I was looking for chat rooms and blogs and sites that would form a support network for me. I thought maybe by finding other people like me on the net, I could figure out how they cope. Imagine my surprise when I find this site geared towards people just like me, to help them find partners, masters/ mistresses, lovers and friends.

So Subguysissy emailed me his story but it does not end with a breakup and terrible ending. He emailed me to tell me his story of success. Because he did find a Mistress online who lived near him and with whom he’s completely head over heels with. After 3 months of dating this guy is happier than he has ever been. She’s even keen on the idea of playing with a strapon, something which he thought he would never get to experience! I am so incredibly happy to have read his story. It always makes me happy to see someone like me, overcome all the obstacles and find their place in the world. I just wanted to share this good news with all of you and can only hope that you too, will be able to find a great consensual relationship.

Femdom POV Blue Haired Goddess

Goddess Starla was in the middle of a nice quiet BDSM session with her husband slave Randy.  Tied to a makeshift bed, Randy is unable to move as Starla flogs his whole body and tortures his poor little cock with clothespins. Then, suddenly and probably to Randy’s relief, the phone rings. Unfortunately for him, his Goddess is excellent at multitasking and doesn’t hesitate for even a second to continue her abuse of Randy while she chats away on the phone. Randy’s relief was based on false hopes, even more so because Starla makes a date with her friend and ends up leaving her cuckolded husband, in a hurry, still tied up, unable to move.

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What is Femdom?

Continuing with my past theme of explaining BDSM, I decided to do a little post on Femdom. Female domination, also know as Femdom is a niche within the BDSM realm. The dominant partner in Femdom is always female while the subservient slave can either be another female or a male. Usually, we see Femdom being portrayed as a female dominating a male. It’s important to note that these relationships are always consensual.

Femdom can also refer to Female Supremacy. The concept with this is that the female is not only the domme in the relationship but that she is actually biologically or spiritually superior to the male. In Female Supremacy, the male will call his Mistress ‘Goddess’, because she is in a sense a Goddess that must be worshiped. In some cases the subservient males are called losers instead of slaves to further demonstrate their inferior place on this earth.

Common practices in Female Supremacy involve putting the male in chastity in order to easily train him. This works especially well as a means to obtain the desired behavior from him. Goddess Starla uses this technique on her husband Randy and along with the chastity device she practices tease and denial. The concept is that by having complete control over the male’s ability to orgasm or reach any form of sexual gratification, the male will start to look to his Goddess as the sole person who is able to grant him sexual release. To get that release he will be willing to do whatever is asked of him and will start to think of things that he can do in order to further please his Goddess. Chastity is one of the fastest ways to obtain results in training but it also involves a lot of work on the Goddess’s part since training with a chastity device requires a lot of attention to the male’s penis and the fact that it is in chastity. What I mean is that you cannot simply put a man in chastity and instantly expect him to behave well. Nor can you ignore his chastity or sexual needs. You must continuously draw attention to the fact that he is in chastity and use a lot of teasing to get the results that you want.

As with most BDSM, humiliation can play another important role in mentally breaking down one’s slave. In the case of Femdom, humiliation is done by mocking the size of the penis, using forced sissification (dressing the male up as a girl), using a strapon to have anal sex with the male and by cuckolding him. Cuckolding humiliates the male since he is forced to watch his Goddess have sex with another, better endowed, male while he is usually in chastity and cannot even get himself off while watching.

Other activities of Femdom include foot, shoe or boot worship, cunnilingus, spanking, caning, wax torutre, facesitting and more. All of which involve in some way or the other worshipping the Goddess.  There’s the short explaination of Femdom, hope you enjoyed it! Feel free to add more info with your comments! If you want a good example of Femdom go to Femdombride.com

Cuckolded by Ex-Boyfriend…kind of

Master let me watch the video he took of Goddess Starla cuckolding her slave Randy by putting a strapon on him and making him fuck her.  I say it was cuckolding because she had just woken up from dreaming about her ex-boyfriend and decided to play out her fantasy by imagining that it was her ex-boyfriend and not Randy’s strapon that she was fucking.

Sometimes Master will play at the same game with me and fuck other girls infront of me -which leaves me horny, jealous and unable to quench the sexual frustration that I feel- I imagine this must be what Randy felt like during this experience, since the chastity device that Goddess Starla put on him denies him any sensation that he would normally receive even with a strapon attached on him. I’m not sure what’s worse… having to watch another women pleasure your Master in front of your own eyes or being told that a strapon being imagined as someone else’s cock is better than your own! Either way I feel for poor Randy when I watch this!

Lesbian Domination

I am simply in love with Mistress Irony. Master is a good friend of hers and she comes over a lot. She is wickedly brutal, and a true sadist which is honestly pretty hard to find in many people. A lot of people that practice BDSM are often not true sadists, which is not a bad thing, whatever reason they choose to do what they do is fine, but in my experience – it’s been rare to find someone who really enjoys inflicting pain on someone else. That really loves the total control – especially among women. Many women I’ve found (especially in porn) aren’t doing it because they truly enjoy it, they may find it an interesting experience, or whatever…but Mistress Irony (this video is from Wasteland.com by the way) is the exception. The only other real Goddess whom I know in real life that I know 100% is a true sadist, true believer in female supremacy, and lives the lifestyle 24/7 is Goddess Starla from Femdombride.com – she and Mistress Irony are good friends as well, and you can see plenty of documentation of them dominating the hell out of her husband in 24/7 chastity Randy over at Femdombride.com

But back to the point – this video from Wasteland gives a very good glimpse of what Mistress Irony is capable of. You can see the twinlke in her eye as she keeps her slut slave on the verge of orgasm…she truly enjoys what she does, and that is one of the biggest turn-ons there is I think. I truly love being beaten by her, or teased and denied orgasms for hours. I’m so lucky in my lifestyle that Master allows his friends to dominate me. Like I’ve mentioned in previous posts…I love cock, I worship it, I could not live without Master’s cock in all my holes on a daily basis – however, god knows I looooove women too…I love worshipping Master’s girlfriends’ feet, being subservient to them, while Master is fucking them…watching as their pussy is filled with My Master’s cock is thrilling!

Relevant links in this post: Wasteland, Femdombride