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It’s no secret, Goddess Starla from Femdombride.com is a personal friend of Master. I’ve spoken about that fact many times and I’ve served her on many occasions - and you may think I’m biased, but honestly I have a really hard time finding real femdoms that actually live the lifestyle and document it, and have the same ability to show us just how much they love their life through their videos. You can tell by this little trailer I posted. Her voice, her eyes – there is no other place she’d rather be than tormenting her poor sissy hubby.

The really wonderful thing about their website is the fact that you can go back and see the very first day that her and her husband decided to delve into a 24/7 female led lifestyle. You can then watch them evolve and grow and eventually become who they are today. Goddess Starla herself has mentioned many times how actually very cool it is to be able to go watch her own life evolve with her husband. How she slowly broke his mind, introduced chastity (which he is now in permanently), how she sissified him, how she began going out with other men and satisfying her sexual needs elsewhere. It’s a pretty amazing ride, if you think about it, and the fact that you can watch every moment and turning point is absolutely astounding to me.

Another noteworthy fact is that a while ago, they actually doubled the amount of videos to their site. Previously they updated with a new full movie every Friday and they have increased that to a full movie on Wednesday, as well as on Friday (plus stories, art, interactive tease games, bonus movies etc. throughout the week). Most of you know, I have no concept of money. I don’t have a penny to my name – I don’t have a bank account, I am a pure slave to Master – but even with my meager slave brain understand that double the amount of stuff for the same price – is a pretty good deal :)

And that’s my shout out for today, so go check out their website at Femdombride.com! Gotta keep it in the family after all, and Goddess Starla and her sissy hubby are definitely such good friends that Master considers them family!

Sissy’s First Day in Chastity

This gallery from Femdombride.com is an oldy but a goody. It shows the first day that Goddess Starla first put her (soon to be) sissy hubby in chastity, locked up in a cb-6000. That’s the really awesome thing about their website – is that they document their entire lifestyle from day 1, so you can go back and watch their entire evolution from the beginning to the present, and with 2 original and exclusive movie updates every week, you get a LOT to watch.

Go check out Femdombride.com – I’ve been inside the members area obviously, and I *highly* recommend it :)

Dominating Girls Vs. Boys

I read a post on the blog of Goddess Starla of FemdomBride.com (it’s in her member’s area so I can’t post a link to it) about what she finds the differences are between dominating women vs. men whom have an interest in BDSM – and it prompted me to make a forum post about it – but then I figured it’d be nice to make a post about it! Basically she goes on to say that there are some pretty stark differences between the two. She mentions that men can be much easier to manipulate and handle because if you control their cock and balls – you basically control them as a whole. She keeps her sissy husband in chastity, except when she lets him out to ruin an orgasm or tease him – which allows her that complete and utter control over him 24/7. With females though, she thinks it can be a little different and requires more of a challenge mentally.

I would tend to agree with the statement that women can be more difficult (there are exceptions of course). I’m a bit of a horny slut as many of you know, so I watch a lot of porn – and I always notice that the girls tend to be much more snarky than the boys when being dominated. I myself was never like that – I am a very willing submissive, and never talk-back…especially now after having been so broken into. But I do like to see a girl be broken from a snarky difficult slave, into a prim and properly broken one!

Male slaves though, especially ones like Starla’s sissy husband who are kept in chastity for the vast majority of their life – especially if they have submissive tendencies become moresubmissive the hornier they get. So keeping them in chastity keeps them horny…it’s a vicious circle of domination, one that Starla uses in perfect harmony with her caring and loving attitude towards her beloved sissy husband.

Goddess Starla does go on to say though that while there are stark differences between the two, that there is one huge and very meaningful similarity. She says that you get a lot more out of your slave when they are kept aroused. That is absolutely true and anyone that has ever played with BDSM knows that very very well. A horny slave is a better slave. However this is where the two genders part ways again…it is a lot easier to keep a man horny than it is a woman (in general) – I personally am always horny, so I don’t really count – but in general…it’s much easier to get “user feedback” from men, because it’s pretty easy to see visually when their cock is hard. With women everything gets a little trickier.

So this begs the question, do you prefer a challenging slave, or an immediately obedient slave (whether it be male or female)? Let us know in the comments or in the forum post I already started!

BDSM Lesbian Golden Showers

As a Slave you learn that anything that your Master or Mistress gives you is a gift. You learn never to talk back to them, to bow your head towards the floor when you speak and to obey their every word. Chelsea Chainsaw is the epitome (thank you to emily for correcting my spelling in the comments!) of a Slave who has just begun the long hard route of being trained. This intense session happened during a weekend getaway with Goddess Starla from FemdomBride.com. Chelsea is far from well behaved and often uses coarse language which angers Goddess Starla to no end. It is one thing for your Master or Mistress to swear at you but a completely different thing for you to be the one swearing at them. Not only is it rude but it also challenges their dominance over you so it is pretty obvious why Goddess Starla takes Chelsea’s lack of obedience very seriously and decides to torture her by pissing all over her face.

Chelsea is forced to endure a very hard Lezdom session with Goddess Starla that includes having an anal hook deep in her ass, attached to metal chains from which Goddess Starla can control the hook by pulling on the chains, to having a bowl full of urine presented to her for her to drink. By the end of the day Chelsea’s ass is bright bright red, she’s sweaty, covered in urine and utterly exhausted. Sounds like she had a great day to me!

Irony’s Delight

Mistress Irony is certainly one of a kind. Her fiery red hair represents her personality well! She is dominating in all aspects of life, and when there is a camera in front of her (so Master tells me) – she gets especially rigorous with her slaves! She has dominated me a few times before…I’ve worshipped her when she came over to hang out with Master (as they have done some video together for Wasteland.com) – and I can honestly say, as brutally dominating as she is – she has one of the kindest hearts and souls I’ve ever come across in my life. She beats me…brutally, but she does it caringly, somehow. It’s hard to explain – but with each smack, each flog, each bit of pain, I feel like she is somehow caring for me by inflicting that pain on me.

Enjoy the gallery, with Mistress Irony :)

By the Balls Foot Worship

I think the images in this gallery kind of speak for themselves. I’m not really sure what to add, except reiterate once again that sometimes…just sometimes, I wish I had male genitalia – so that I could feel what it’s like to have something on my body so sensitive, and so able to be taken advantage of. When Goddess Starla, or any dominant for that matter – has their slave quite literally by the balls, be it with chastity and orgasm denial – or in this case a nice leash…what can that slave do to disobey? One yank produces massive pain…they are completely under the will of their Mistress.

I love seeing Goddess Starla take advantage of her husband in such a manner. It’s not always easy living in a 24/7 relationship…but this couple (Starla and Randy) have stood the test of time thus far. That means, that Goddess Starla has obviously got complete control over her sissy husband – which is the only way to really keep a lifestyle like that going. Eventually anyone would breakdown from the rigors of actually being a slave. It takes a lot of dominance from the dominant to be able to keep them in that mind-state. Trust me, I should know!

Sissy Ballbusted

This poor sissy has no idea what is in store for him once his balls are viced up like this. Being a female slave myself I’ve obviously never undergone severe CBT or have been ballbusted. I’ve received every other imaginable kind of torture, but I often wish sometimes I had a cock and balls, just so that I could understand the feeling of having them beat like this. It seems like such a brutal vulnerability to have…something so sensitive, that can be owned by one’s dominant.

This mistress from Clubdom.com is absolutely ruthless with this sissy. Obviously his cock and balls are of no concern to her, and she delights in absolutely beating the hell out of them. And good for her! I appreciate a strong woman than can take charge and does what she has to do to be submitted to! Unfortunately they are only screengrabs from the video from Clubdom.com but they serve a pretty good example for what they have in store for you over there. I definitely recommend it.

Beautiful Mistress BDSM

In Lifestyle BDSM sexiness is always a factor – BDSM in general is very sexy and even when you live it 24/7 like I do – arousal is a large part of submission…it can be difficult to submit, and still withstand the abuse that I receive when I’m not horny, or if I feel under the weather, or grumpy. But regardless – it’s a lifestyle choice.

I’m not sure what about this gallery made me think of all this – but to me, this woman is beauty incarnate. She is just so amazingly gorgeous – and it made me realize just how important looks and wardrobe can be. I suppose I’ve just lived this lifestyle so intimately for so long now, that it almost doesn’t even matter anymore – but when your talking about eroticism, and porn – look absolutely matters. Enjoy this amazing gallery from Clubdom.com an absolutely fantastic Femdom site!

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