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		<title>MistreXXX Femdom Podcast &#8211; Episode 12</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/04/27/mistrexxx-femdom-podcast-episode-12/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2012 16:45:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Slaveduties</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Another wonderful podcast by my good friends at MistreXXX.com! This time Mistress Tara couldn&#8217;t make it but Mistress Irony and &#34;Slave2.0&#34; as he has come to be known had a great show anyway! I watched it live when they broadcasted and it was simply amazing. I love watching them, it&#8217;s super entertaining, and quite informative as well &#8211; even for a lifestyler myself, but they really do address many of the issues that arise for newcomers as well. All around a very well-rounded show that is not only informative but just super entertaining, fun, and enjoyable to listen to. I listened to it while I was doing some work on the site, it&#8217;s very cool to have a BDSM related podcast to listen to! I&#8217;d like to give a lot of love to Slave2.0 who really helped get Slaveduties.com back on it&#8217;s feet after the crash. More news on that soon though! In the meantime, watch the VOD of the show below!!! Trust me, you won&#8217;t regret it, and it supports them tremendously.]]></description>
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		<title>For Aspiring Femdoms</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/04/12/for-aspiring-femdoms/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2012 15:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Slaveduties</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A question that often comes up in the community is &#34;how do I get my partner into this?&#34;. This is probably the most popular question on just about any forum, and it definitely is a difficult one. I don&#8217;t think there is any magic bullet to it&#8230;BDSM is a pretty specific thing, and most people aren&#8217;t into it &#8211; that&#8217;s just a fact. That being said, I do think it&#8217;s possible to pique someone&#8217;s interest and see where it goes. I love this video by MistreXXX.com because while I don&#8217;t think it will convince your significant other to all of a sudden become a powerful Femdom, I do think it can be used as one tool amongst many (articles, stories, conversation&#8230;etc.) to persuade them to just try, or to maybe get an understanding of the perks of living in a 24/7 D/s lifestyle. Anyway, if you&#8217;re interested in getting your better half to get into femdom, I recommend giving this video a gander :)]]></description>
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		<title>MistreXXX Femdom Podcast &#8211; Episode 11</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/04/07/mistrexxx-femdom-podcast-episode-11/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Apr 2012 14:04:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Slaveduties</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[MistreXXX Podcast episode 11 is up, and I really want to support Mistress Irony and Mistress Tara as much as I possibly can. They do so much not only for their own slaves and inner-circles but for the community at large. This podcast is purely a vehicle to reach as many people as possible and talk about the realities of BDSM, that sometimes the internet over-hypes BDSM, that it&#8217;s not all like the porn that we produce. Master has always tried to show some of the realities of BDSM, the quiet times, the boring times, the times where you just don&#8217;t feel like being a slave, but you tough through it. It&#8217;s really nice to hear these two Mistresses really talk about their personal lives and behind the scenes lives and give their perspective on the scene, and what it&#8217;s like to be a pro-domme, a lifestyle Mistress, and in Irony&#8217;s case &#8211; what it&#8217;s like to also shoot adult BDSM video, particularly for her site, MistreXXX.com So check it out and please subscribe to them, and leave them some nice messages&#8230;they need your support and feedback! You can also see MistreXXX&#8217;s Youtube channel if you prefer that&#8230;her initial one got closed down (for a foot worship video she said, which blows my mind as there are like a million foot worship videos on youtube) &#8211; but anyway she made a new one and is re-uploading all her content to it over at www.youtube.com/Mistr3x.]]></description>
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		<title>MistreXXX Femdom Podcast #10 &#8211; Guest: Mistress Tara</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/04/02/mistrexxx-femdom-podcast-10-guest-mistress-tara/</link>
		<comments>http://slaveduties.com/2012/04/02/mistrexxx-femdom-podcast-10-guest-mistress-tara/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Apr 2012 14:35:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Personally I think that MistreXXX took their podcast to a whole new level this week&#8230;I watched it live, and was totally enthralled with the awesome and casual conversation by two super-ultra dominant women, alongside my good friend and very submissive male, as Mistress has so lovingly dubbed him &#34;Slave2.0&#34; &#8211; because he takes care of a lot of the technical mumbo jumbo for a lot of us! The part that struck me the most was when Slave2.0 asked Mistress Tara if she&#8217;s ever had or has any lifestyle slaves. She pops off the headset, calls someone, and a few minutes later her 24/7 lifestyle slave of 4 years comes on and answers questions! What?! So amazing&#8230;I mean, the spontaneous addition of a lifestyle slave like myself to a podcast conversation blew my mind. &#160; The really nice thing about this podcast series is that Slave2.0 and Mistress Irony of MistreXXX talk about the realities of living this fantasy as a lifestyle. And they also talk about working in the adult industry in general. The stories they tell are hilarious, especially for me because I&#8217;ve been present for some of them, but it&#8217;s also just really cool to get a casual conversation about this. Normally online everything is sort of hyper-stylized, which is fine&#8230;it enhances the fantasy, I&#8217;m guilty of it myself &#8211; but this has the opportunity to bring us back down to earth and have a real discussion. I really encourage all of you to watch online, I&#8217;ve placed a timer at the top of my website here so you guys know exactly when it&#8217;s going to go live :) Enjoy!]]></description>
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		<title>MistreXXX is Here! My big reveal!</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/01/13/mistrexxx-is-here-my-big-reveal/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2012 15:32:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Slaveduties</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://slaveduties.com/?p=1477</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[All right everyone&#8230;the time is finally upon me to announce what I&#8217;ve been working on lately! Welcome MistreXXX.com :D I had a big hand in the creation of this website, and I am beyond proud to be a part of it. Mistress Irony whom the site really focuses on is a great friend of ours, and Master bestowed upon me the responsibility of working with her and her &#34;web slave&#34; to put her site together. It may seem a simple task, but I can assure you that it took an extraordinary amount of work to make it what it is. Before I go on, please check out this awesome trailer for the site! So MistreXXX.com is similar to our other very good friend&#8217;s site as you all know Femdombride.com in that it is a site dedicated to documenting and following a wonderful Mistress in her awesome adventures as a lifestyle femdom. The kinky lifestyle is really something that many people unfortunately can&#8217;t live realistically, so being able to provide something that gives a glimpse into it so that others can experience it is something that makes me really proud. Mistress Irony is quite a domme as well, she is cruel yet&#8230;kind. It&#8217;s kind of eerie how cute and sweet she can look and soundwhile being so cruel and evil. There is a ton of content already in the site, despite being new &#8211; she has been shooting a lot and there is a lot waiting for people when they enter her site. If you are into femdom, I really do hope you join and enjoy the site&#8230;and let us know what you think! I think it&#8217;s pretty amazing that a lowly slave such as myself could have had a part in creating this site&#8230;I feel a pride that I have never really felt before. I feel like I really accomplished something&#8230;and it feels amazing. I&#8217;d really like to thank Mistress and Master for having the trust and faith in me to put me in that position&#8230;I&#8217;d also like to thank her web slave for being patient and working with me. He was very corteous and we spent much time on Skype solving problems, brainstorming, and working hand-in-hand. It was amazing, and I look forward to continuing as we grow the site! Another awesome thing about Mistress Irony is her dedication to stepping outside of the traditional content box&#8230;she already has multiple vlogs up and a podcast&#8230;and I know she&#8217;s doing another podcast this afternoon which I&#8217;ll post as well. Here&#8217;s their first podcast&#8230;it features her and the webslave that I&#8217;ve been talking about &#8211; and of course she also has a dedicated Blog just like me! If you want to check out the rest of her vlogs and podcasts as they come up (I&#8217;ll also post them here on my site) you can check her blip.tv channel where they are all published. So&#8230;another site joins the family. And I hope all of my readers go over there and lend her...]]></description>
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		<title>BDSM Captivation</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2011/03/09/bdsm-captivation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Mar 2011 18:03:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[God I am so enthralled with Goddess Starla &#8211; I am no where near a female dominant in a BDSM context, but her passion and skill with manipulating her sissy slaves is truly awe inspiring. Her voice, her facial expressions&#8230;it&#8217;s easy to perhaps underestimate her cruelty, and I guess thats what is so captivating and compelling about watching her in her BDSM lifestyle. I know most of her fans are males, so I guess I&#8217;m a bit of an odd-ball&#8230;a female slave looking up to a female dominant, but she is also a good friend, so I suppose knowing her on a personal level adds a layer of interest for me as well. Enjoy the video, I dare you not to check out her site after watching it, if your able to not check it out &#8211; your not human ;)]]></description>
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		<title>Interview with Goddess Starla</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2010/10/15/interview-with-goddess-starla/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Oct 2010 19:33:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m not sure what inspired me to spawn this thought, but as I was going to sleep in my cage a few nights ago I thought &#8220;I bet people are curious about who they see in video&#8230;&#8221;. I am quite exposed to the inner workings of the &#8220;adult&#8221; industry and so I think I somewhat take for granted the little things that many people might not be aware of, and might be curious about. Goddess Starla of FemdomBride.com is probably the most prominant people that Master and I know, and is quite honestly one of the most amazing people I&#8217;ve ever had the pleasure of knowing&#8230;I thought you guys might be interested in a little interview, and finding out a little more about her! SD: First of all, thank you Goddess for giving your time for myself and my readers! Goddess Starla: Oh it&#8217;s my pleasure, darling &#8211; you know I love your site. SD: Thank you Goddess! So, for those people who might be reading this that don&#8217;t know what Femdombride.com is &#8211; can you give us a quick idea of what your site is? Goddess Starla: Absolutely &#8211; Femdombride.com is my website that basically documents the FLR (Female Led Relationship) of myself Goddess Starla, and my husband Randy. We try and document a lot of the realities of this lifestyle, which you know as a lifestyle submissive yourself, but many people aren&#8217;t aware of what lies behind the fantasy of such a lifestyle &#8211; so we try and keep it entertaining and arousing, but also to really show that yes&#8230;we really are this couple. It&#8217;s kind of difficult because many people just want to see me ruin his orgasms all the time and beat him up, so we have struck a balance that we think you can sit back to and be aroused by, yet see some of the reality that is this lifestyle. SD: So the basis of the site is that you and Randy are a married couple&#8230;are you actually married? If so, can you tell us a little about how you met each other and got into this type of relationship? Goddess Starla: Yes, we are actually married &#8211; we actually met at a halloween party, and neither of us were really looking for an FLR at the time&#8230;we hit it off because we have similar personalities, and an interest in the arts &#8211; we were married in Vegas and only after we were married did Randy introduce me to his fantasies about FLR. From there on out &#8211; pretty much the very day we started this lifestyle is documented on the site. We thought it would be cool for viewers to see it from the very beginning and watch it grow. I remember I didn&#8217;t really believe he&#8217;d do it &#8211; so the first thing I did to make him prove it was drink a glass of my piss, which at the time even pretty much disgusted me! But he did it &#8211; on...]]></description>
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		<title>Lifestyle Femdom</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2010/06/12/lifestyle-femdom/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jun 2010 13:59:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Slaveduties</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s no secret, Goddess Starla from Femdombride.com is a personal friend of Master. I&#8217;ve spoken about that fact many times and I&#8217;ve served her on many occasions - and you may think I&#8217;m biased, but honestly I have a really hard time finding real femdoms that actually live the lifestyle and document it, and have the same ability to show us just how much they love their life through their videos. You can tell by this little trailer I posted. Her voice, her eyes &#8211; there is no other place she&#8217;d rather be than tormenting her poor sissy hubby. The really wonderful thing about their website is the fact that you can go back and see the very first day that her and her husband decided to delve into a 24/7 female led lifestyle. You can then watch them evolve and grow and eventually become who they are today. Goddess Starla herself has mentioned many times how actually very cool it is to be able to go watch her own life evolve with her husband. How she slowly broke his mind, introduced chastity (which he is now in permanently), how she sissified him, how she began going out with other men and satisfying her sexual needs elsewhere. It&#8217;s a pretty amazing ride, if you think about it, and the fact that you can watch every moment and turning point is absolutely astounding to me. Another noteworthy fact is that a while ago, they actually doubled the amount of videos to their site. Previously they updated with a new full movie every Friday and they have increased that to a full movie on Wednesday, as well as on Friday (plus stories, art, interactive tease games, bonus movies etc. throughout the week). Most of you know, I have no concept of money. I don&#8217;t have a penny to my name &#8211; I don&#8217;t have a bank account, I am a pure slave to Master &#8211; but even with my meager slave brain understand that double the amount of stuff for the same price &#8211; is a pretty good deal :) And that&#8217;s my shout out for today, so go check out their website at Femdombride.com! Gotta keep it in the family after all, and Goddess Starla and her sissy hubby are definitely such good friends that Master considers them family!]]></description>
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		<title>Sissy&#8217;s First Day in Chastity</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2010/06/10/sissys-first-day-in-chastity/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 19:35:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Slaveduties</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This gallery from Femdombride.com is an oldy but a goody. It shows the first day that Goddess Starla first put her (soon to be) sissy hubby in chastity, locked up in a cb-6000. That&#8217;s the really awesome thing about their website &#8211; is that they document their entire lifestyle from day 1, so you can go back and watch their entire evolution from the beginning to the present, and with 2 original and exclusive movie updates every week, you get a LOT to watch. Go check out Femdombride.com &#8211; I&#8217;ve been inside the members area obviously, and I *highly* recommend it :)]]></description>
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		<title>Dominating Girls Vs. Boys</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2010/06/08/dominating-girls-vs-boys/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jun 2010 15:55:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Slaveduties</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I read a post on the blog of Goddess Starla of FemdomBride.com (it&#8217;s in her member&#8217;s area so I can&#8217;t post a link to it) about what she finds the differences are between dominating women vs. men whom have an interest in BDSM &#8211; and it prompted me to make a forum post about it &#8211; but then I figured it&#8217;d be nice to make a post about it! Basically she goes on to say that there are some pretty stark differences between the two. She mentions that men can be much easier to manipulate and handle because if you control their cock and balls &#8211; you basically control them as a whole. She keeps her sissy husband in chastity, except when she lets him out to ruin an orgasm or tease him &#8211; which allows her that complete and utter control over him 24/7. With females though, she thinks it can be a little different and requires more of a challenge mentally. I would tend to agree with the statement that women can be more difficult (there are exceptions of course). I&#8217;m a bit of a horny slut as many of you know, so I watch a lot of porn &#8211; and I always notice that the girls tend to be much more snarky than the boys when being dominated. I myself was never like that &#8211; I am a very willing submissive, and never talk-back&#8230;especially now after having been so broken into. But I do like to see a girl be broken from a snarky difficult slave, into a prim and properly broken one! Male slaves though, especially ones like Starla&#8217;s sissy husband who are kept in chastity for the vast majority of their life &#8211; especially if they have submissive tendencies become moresubmissive the hornier they get. So keeping them in chastity keeps them horny&#8230;it&#8217;s a vicious circle of domination, one that Starla uses in perfect harmony with her caring and loving attitude towards her beloved sissy husband. Goddess Starla does go on to say though that while there are stark differences between the two, that there is one huge and very meaningful similarity. She says that you get a lot more out of your slave when they are kept aroused. That is absolutely true and anyone that has ever played with BDSM knows that very very well. A horny slave is a better slave. However this is where the two genders part ways again&#8230;it is a lot easier to keep a man horny than it is a woman (in general) &#8211; I personally am always horny, so I don&#8217;t really count &#8211; but in general&#8230;it&#8217;s much easier to get &#8220;user feedback&#8221; from men, because it&#8217;s pretty easy to see visually when their cock is hard. With women everything gets a little trickier. So this begs the question, do you prefer a challenging slave, or an immediately obedient slave (whether it be male or female)? Let us know in the comments or in the forum post I...]]></description>
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