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		<title>Revelations</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2011/12/05/revelations/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Dec 2011 16:29:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Trust. That one word is so very meaningful and powerful especially in a BDSM relationship. Faith is also important&#8230;faith in one&#8217;s dominant to know what is best for you, to have faith that he/she will guide you down the right path. Faith in the trust that you put into your dominant is essential to be a successful submissive. I realized that this past Friday. As of Friday morning I had been locked up in Chastity for just over three months. Many friends from the Slaveduties community chat will know how frustrated I&#8217;ve been. A long period of chastity for a nymphomaniac such as myself is no easy ordeal. Moreso however I&#8217;d been struggling with something far worse and disorienting. Our house slave had gotten quite the attitude on her, and it seemed that my Master was supporting it. I couldn&#8217;t tell why, and to say I was frustrated was the absolute understatement of the century. Previously I had held a higher position than our house slave&#8230;I could tell her what to do, I was &#8220;lead slave&#8221; &#8211; meaning, I was still a grovelling worm in comparison to Master, but the house slave was still beneath me in regards to household hierarchy. This seemed to change over the past weeks and months. Master has been keeping me from walking by attaching belts around my theighs and calves, with thin plastic-coated wire cinching them together between my calves and theighs so they could not move, locking me to my knees for days at a time. Meanwhile the house slave was free to roam around the house, walk any time she wanted. She would taunt me&#8230;giggling at my immobility, or the humiliation of being so far beneath her all the time. She would stand next to me and graze my cheek with her toes&#8230;knowing full well my unbearable foot fetish, and being so wound up sexually from having been in chastity I would always give in and begin worshiping her feet, which would draw out more giggles&#8230;more taunting. Always above me, always seemingly in control. Where had my control gone? Why had I been relegated to the floor? I was the favorite&#8230;wasn&#8217;t I? I had seniority! Master began showing clear favoritism. He would make love to her always knowing I was within earshot or could very well see them across the room. They made love on top of my cage while I was trying to sleep (yes I sleep locked in a cage). Master would use me anally, and then finish inside her pussy. For someone so addicted to orgasms as myself, being in chastity for so long, witnessing this was almost unbearable. Why was this happening? Had I displeased my Master, such that I was now nothing? Yet still throughout all of this, with the websites and work stuff &#8211; clearly I was still very important. I work closely with Master on many projects, I&#8217;ve become quite the little helper. Yet, in terms of domestic life I was slipping further and further...]]></description>
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		<title>Blog and Community Revamp</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2011/11/29/blog-and-community-revamp/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 16:25:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been a while since I&#8217;ve posted, and as I&#8217;ve mentioned on the forums&#8230;I deeply apologize for that, and for putting people in a weird situation of not knowing if the site would still be around, or would disappear at any moment. Slaveduties.com will never go anywhere, of that I promise. Even though I was absent for a while, the site is permanently hosted and there is no risk of it ever going anywhere &#8211; I promise you that! Maintenance is an issue though, and spam became a problem. With the new forum and community revamp, spam will be much less of an issue &#8211; and along with DarkTruth I&#8217;d like to have a couple of long-term members become moderators&#8230;so that just in case I do go away for a little while again, the forums can be maintained! I have been back a while now, spending a lot of time in the chat and on the forums&#8230;I haven&#8217;t written any new posts because I really wanted to get the new design finished and implement the new functionality. Why? Because writing about my life requires me to be in a specific mind state, where I can reflect on my experiences. Working on the site is more of a technical and creative mindset, so it&#8217;s difficult to switch between the two. I just wanted to get the new version finished and then resume my posting&#8230;which I will do now :) I&#8217;d really like to thank everyone for your support, your love, and your constant comments and interaction with me. It means more than I could ever possibly express in words. Master has stated that Slaveduties.com will be my priority again, as it used to be. We got torn with some other projects, ideas, some flopped, some are still in the works, but basically Slaveduties.com just basically got put on the back burner for a while&#8230;but I realized coming back how important this site is to me. How much work I&#8217;ve put into it, the friends I&#8217;ve made, the ability to vent and get things out of my head and out into the open&#8230;it is amazingly therapeutic, and for example last night in the chat sWITCHed_on gave me some advice that I think put me down a path that I think Master has been trying and waiting for me to go down. It was an amazing revelation and that wouldn&#8217;t have been possible without the community, the chat, and &#8220;witchy&#8221; :) So, now everyone has the ability to add pictures in the forums gallery section, the forums area is so much better, stable, fast, and has a lot more functionality than the old ones. The blog itself is pretty much the same, with a new look to match the forums. I&#8217;m still working on adding more functionality to the forums, like video support, and a point system that actually rewards people with various gifts and perks. &#160;]]></description>
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		<title>BDSM Out of the Darkness</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2011/04/27/bdsm-out-of-the-darkness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Apr 2011 17:37:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s amazing how relatable BDSM is to so many things in life. For example, there is nothing like the fear of the unknown. Humans have always been fearful of that which we did not know and understand. We are afraid of darkness because we cannot easily see predators, our imaginations go wild with the possibilities, our minds must fill up the void of darkness that surrounds us. Many times, it is all just in our heads &#8211; perhaps an instictual desire to make sure we are not snuck up upon, a defense mechanism. In this poor whore&#8217;s case&#8230;she is not so lucky. She is bound cruelly in Wasteland&#8217;s BDSM dungeon, and she damn well knows she is in for something awful. This is one of the most terrible and exhilerating feelings a slave can undergo. It&#8217;s terrible to know you are going to experience horrible things, you will be in pain, you will be humiliated, dehumanized&#8230;but the calm before the storm is the worse part. Unable to move, bound and completely helpless to change the outcome of what will happen to you. And then before you know it, it&#8217;s all upon you &#8211; and you find yourself in love with that awful beast that is doing such terrible things to you. Wasteland once again sends my own mind reeling, my own desires flowing, and reminding me that I am so lucky to have the life that I have! Hope you guys enjoy the video and please do check out Wasteland! Very good friends of Master, I, and Goddess Starla as well, they have like 15 years worth of content&#8230;it&#8217;s pretty ridiculous &#8211; so definitely give them a shot and show some support to the pillars of the online BDSM community :) &#160;]]></description>
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		<title>Gagged BDSM Realizations</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2011/03/21/gagged-bdsm-realizations/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Mar 2011 16:38:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ever get a tooth ache, and then &#8211; all you can think about is your mouth? Then, you go see your dentist and when you get all fixed up, the next time you think about your mouth is when you get another cavity, or perhaps you bite your cheek? It&#8217;s funny, our mouths are so important to us, have the absolute most nerve endings (and therefore is susceptible to the most pain) &#8211; they are the gateway to our sustenance, or sickness &#8211; they are so important to us. Gags plug up these holes, or keep them permanently open. I&#8217;d like you to take a second, take a step back, and think on that a moment. The purpose, and end result of a gag in a slave&#8217;s mouth. Think about the control, the absolute domination that one must have over another in order to literally physically control such an integral part of their body. One gag says, nothing will go in as long as I say so. You will not be able to use it, I am disabling one of the most important parts of your body. It is rendered useless by the dom&#8217;s decision, his/her choice. The other gag says, your mouth will remain open until I desire otherwise. Anything I desire may go into your mouth, whether you like it or not. What?! WHAT? Take a minute and think about that! It is truly one of the most amazing forms of control and domination at the disposal of any dominant. What brings this up? I am in an open mouth gag a lot, and after experiencing that kind of &#8220;rediscovery&#8221; that my last post was about, I&#8217;ve been trying to pay more attention to my surroundings, and my life. I&#8217;ve spent much of the weekend strapped in my tube gag, sitting in a corner, and having cocks placed inside my mouth. What could I do about it? Absolutely&#8230;nothing. Master saw fit that my mouth would remain open, and therefore anything he wanted to enter it, could. His friends all had permission to enter my mouth at their whim. I paid close attention to the feeling I got everytime a new cock entered my mouth, rubbed itself back and forth on my tongue, then finally pushed against the back of my throat, my nose getting pushed into the seam of their jeans. The feeling was more than helplessness&#8230;it was a different level. Even swallowing is made difficult&#8230;you kind of have to rely on gravity to do the work for you. Normally when your lips close, it kinds of creates a vacuum I guess, and you can kinda suck things down your throat, however when your mouth is extended as far as it can go, and is stuck like that &#8211; well, when you swallow, you kinda take what you can get&#8230;which often, isn&#8217;t much. It took a lot of work and tries to swallow each load of cum, and of course the build up of saliva &#8211; well all...]]></description>
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		<title>Bound Realizations</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2011/03/15/bound-realizations/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Mar 2011 16:23:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://slaveduties.com/?p=1379</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[As some of you may know, I am almost permanently restricted in some kind of bondage. I spend hours a day tied up in grueling positions, but even when I&#8217;m not, I am usually in shackles, or these neat little things that Master crafted that fit around my foot that if I put my heel down (forces me to stay on tippy toes) some very nasty spikes await my feet. I was lounging around yesterday, and just in a bit of a day-dreamy state of mind, being the vapid, objectified, non-thinking slave toy that I always wished to be when suddenly&#8230;I became very aware of my restraints. They are not particularily tight, they simply remove my ability to walk anywhere quickly or stretch out &#8211; and I spent a long time looking for somewhat descriptive photographs so you all could get a good idea. I became very aware of my restraints for some reason, I looked down and saw my usual cuffs that have a long chain down to my ankles, which have a chain between them aswell. Basically I can stand up and walk but my hands cannot go above my waist. I wear these a lot, so it was kind of weird to suddenly become aware of them. It made me start to think about my position, I thought about Master &#8211; being free and unbound, able to walk wherever he wanted, being able to look people in the eye and say whatever he wants to say. I cannot do either of those seemingly very simple things &#8211; I don&#8217;t know why it just dawned on me, the idea of being so restricted in so many different ways, but taken out of a D/s context &#8211; it felt strange, very strange. If you look at the norm, then look at a D/s lifestyle like I live&#8230;it&#8217;s a little crazy. I suddenly got this out of context, outside-looking-in understanding of the small things and the big things in my life. It made me feel very strange, and here&#8217;s the kicker &#8211; The strangeness felt good. Really good. It was like the first time you realize you have a fetish. Your like &#8220;Oh I like feet! Wow look at this whole new exciting world for me to explore!&#8221;. I felt like I had re-discovered the D/s lifestyle, somehow &#8211; like I had gotten used to and taken for granted my life as a slave. I thought about the time late last year and early this year where I was forced to exit this lifestyle for a period of time, and how miserable and terrible it was &#8211; and how good it felt just to be lying there shackled naked, unable to stand flat footed, unable to look another human in the eye. I also realized how lucky I am to be able to have Slaveduties.com &#8211; a place with such an amazing community, a place for me to vent my thoughts, and communicate to likeminded people&#8230;people who understand. I don&#8217;t...]]></description>
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		<title>BDSM Captivation</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2011/03/09/bdsm-captivation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Mar 2011 18:03:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[God I am so enthralled with Goddess Starla &#8211; I am no where near a female dominant in a BDSM context, but her passion and skill with manipulating her sissy slaves is truly awe inspiring. Her voice, her facial expressions&#8230;it&#8217;s easy to perhaps underestimate her cruelty, and I guess thats what is so captivating and compelling about watching her in her BDSM lifestyle. I know most of her fans are males, so I guess I&#8217;m a bit of an odd-ball&#8230;a female slave looking up to a female dominant, but she is also a good friend, so I suppose knowing her on a personal level adds a layer of interest for me as well. Enjoy the video, I dare you not to check out her site after watching it, if your able to not check it out &#8211; your not human ;)]]></description>
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		<title>News, Updates, And Good Vibes!</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2011/02/15/news-updates-and-good-vibes/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Feb 2011 21:40:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What have I been up to?! Well as many of you know I was forced by the realities of life to go on a bit of a BDSM-hiatus, including taking care of the site. Well, I&#8217;ve been back and while I haven&#8217;t necessarily been updating the site as much as I&#8217;d like to, I&#8217;ve been busy doing other stuff for you guys! I&#8217;m not unveling anything just yet, but I would like to say that I&#8217;ve been working on a podcast, which I think many of you will love (I&#8217;m hoping!). Also, I&#8217;ve been doing a lot of work with Master &#8211; taking on a more active role in his work, so I&#8217;ve been helping him shoot with Goddess Starla, I&#8217;ve been doing video editing, some website updates&#8230;basically, I&#8217;m starting to be really helpful to him not only as a sex-object, housemaid, frustration-releaser&#8230;lol&#8230;ya I made that wordcombo up&#8230;but you know what I mean. I even get to go down to Wasteland.com this weekend with Master and Goddess Starla, as they are going to be shooting with this girl for two days! I am beyond excited. Either way, life has been pretty good lately, back-on-track&#8230;daily beatings, humiliation, lots of parties in which I&#8217;ve been used at&#8230;sexually, we&#8217;ve gotten right back into the swing of things. All these added things have definitely added some stress and strain, but it&#8217;s been fun too&#8230;Spending more time with Master while he&#8217;s off filming and working, spending more time with Goddess Starla, I have to admit it&#8217;s nice to be a slave in a non-sex role as well. I feel even lower, like an unpaid intern lol&#8230;There is a surprising amount of grunt work to be done, and being the bitch that has to go do it all, giving Master, Starla and even Randy a break to focus more on whats actually going on is refreshing and highly rewarding. I&#8217;m also still slowly working on a way to upgrade the Slaveduties.com community&#8230;I don&#8217;t really like to forum structure and stuff, it can be a lot better &#8211; so I&#8217;ve got a few options, but some of them Master says are pretty expensive, I don&#8217;t really know &#8211; I don&#8217;t even know what minimum wage in Canada even is anymore lol&#8230; So that about wraps it up in regards to whats been going on &#8211; I&#8217;d like to leave you with a message I got on the Slaveduties.com community (of which I am always available) once again about one of my absolute favorite sites of all time, as I believe it has helped so many BDSM enthusiasts realize their fantasies. So many people get trapped in vanilla relationships and are ultimately unhappy because they cannot live the way they actually want to &#8211; whether it be as a Dom or a sub &#8211; and because I feel it relates to my last post quite a bit&#8230;so here goes: Greetings Slaveduties, I apologize in advance if I am using the incorrect way of contacting you, I hope this...]]></description>
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		<title>What it Means to Be Dominant</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2011/01/31/what-it-means-to-be-dominant/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Jan 2011 20:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Picture Courtesy of our good friends at: Wasteland.com &#8211; Please support the BDSM community and check them out :) Recently I was sent a message by one of our wonderful community members &#8211; I&#8217;m not sure if he wants his name out there, so as usual I&#8217;ll just leave him anonymous &#8211; however Sir if you want, go ahead and post in the comments and let everyone know who you are :) He stated that I have been quite vocal about what I feel it means to be submissive, at least from my perspective &#8211; however I have never really given my thoughts one what I think it means to be dominant. I&#8217;ve certainly written about being a male dominant, in a post about online dating advice for male dominants &#8211; however I&#8217;ve never really talked about what it means, or how I feel about it. What does it mean to be a dominant male to me? Some people think that being a dominant is reserved for egotistical people on some kind of power trip. I&#8217;m sure these people do exist &#8211; and in fact, I&#8217;ve had the unfortunate experience of subbing to several of them. That being said, every good dominant male is actually in reality a very giving person, even selfless. In truth, in the vast majority of  BDSM scenes, the submissive is truly usually in more control of whats going on than the Dominant. I&#8217;d say my life is an exception to that rule, as I&#8217;m sure there are others &#8211; but in general the best male dominants put the needs and desires of their submissive first. And that&#8217;s how it should be for 99.9% of people. Dominants need to be able to walk this fine line of pushing his desires to the furthest while maintaining the limits of whom he is dominating &#8211; all while pushing their submissive&#8217;s limits as well so that they have a good experience, and push themselves, but of course not too far. That is a lot of stuff to juggle, there are so many variables to consider &#8211; that dominating can be quite a physically and mentally exhausting affair. I&#8217;ve experienced many subs get upset at Masters because they do not want to play &#8211; they do not understand just how exhausting it can be to dominate. Many subs feel they get the short end of the stick and that it&#8217;s all lemonade and cupcakes for their Dominant &#8211; &#8220;well you get to do whatever you want, why wouldn&#8217;t you want to play&#8221; &#8211; it can even work on the sub&#8217;s self-esteem, as if they are not even good enough to be a slave. The truth is, sometimes going into a scene &#8211; knowing everything that it will take to have a good scene can be daunting&#8230;so subbies&#8230;give your dominants some slack sometimes ;) Dominants, please let your slaves know how you might be feeling! I truly think that many slaves are selfish in a way &#8211; I know I feel that way sometimes....]]></description>
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		<title>Bunch of BDSM Galleries!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jan 2011 16:09:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Now that I&#8217;m back and able to be in front of the computer again, living the lifestyle &#8211; I have time to add new content to the site again! Yay! I went a bit gallery crazy, from some of my favorite sites, Wasteland, Femdombride, and Forbidden East &#8211; all top notch sites that update every week (Femdombride.com actually updates three times a week&#8230;craziness). So enjoy the new galleries, let me know what you think &#8211; and of course, if you feel so inclined &#8211; please check out the sites that they belong to. They could all use your support :) The industry in which they work is going through a pretty rough time unfortunately &#8211; so they could definitely use your support :) Enjoy, and let me know what you think in the comments! Check out the new and old Galleries Here!]]></description>
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		<title>Slave Ava Gets BDSM Abused</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jan 2011 15:45:38 +0000</pubDate>
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