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		<title>Things I love about BDSM: Over-Stimulation</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 19:54:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Over-stimulation is a very fine line. It has the ability to put you in a very bad place, or the most amazing of places&#8230;and both of those places have a lot of value to a dominant. Sometimes, during a legitimate training session, in which Master is trying to break a habit out of me, correcting me, breaking my spirit to further my submissive downward-spiral as it were, he wants to put me in a very negative place&#8230;a place I want to exit from as soon as possible. Over-stimulation during this type of corrective or adjustment sessions is brutal because it&#8217;s too much, too fast, and the worse part is that you simply never know when it will end. When you have mutliple sensations attacking you from different angles what ends up happening is your brain sort of fritz&#8217;s out (That&#8217;s the scientific term by the way). During these times and directly after is when mental reconstruction works the best, because I am like putty&#8230;maleable in the hands of Master. He can adjust me over multiple sessions &#8211; and I feel like it&#8217;s because my brain has shut down and went into a primal state, which in some sense kind of like a survival mechanism. To deal with the pain, the pleasure, the over-stimulation of my senses, my brain must shut off &#8211; and thus&#8230;I am a lot easier to influence. I know this because I have many things &#34;adjusted&#34; over the years&#8230;.bad habits changed, ideas changed, submission brought to a whole new level. I will recognize it sometime later, thinking about something differently&#8230;remembering to change the toilet paper rolls for example&#8230;I had missed one once which resulted in a session that focused on nothing but my desire to change toilet paper rolls&#8230;I am not fanatical, almost OCD about changing them. On the other hand&#8230;and this is extremely difficult to do, but I think it comes from experience and Master just knowing my body so intimately and masterfully that he can put me in an over-stimulated state and I just never want to leave. My brain shuts off in the same way, but it&#8217;s done in such a pleasurable way that literally hours can pass and I have no idea. I think both are forms of &#34;sub-space&#34; as we call it, but as a direct result of multiple sensations attacking you simultaneously. Having your clit stimulated, a dildo in your pussy, in your ass, nipples being pulled hard, wax dripping down you, clamps on your sides, being asked questions, suspended upside down&#8230;your brain has to allocate resources to all of those different sensations&#8230;both pleasurable and painful. It is an amazing sensation and browsing through some of Wasteland.com&#8217;s videos I remember this one vividly of Slave Giselle and her several experiences with Goddess Starla and in this particular video with a Master who asked to remain masked&#8230;she got completely over-stimulated, and fell into a sub-space I am all too familiar with, and I could see in her eyes that she becomes absolutely...]]></description>
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		<title>Cuckold Jealousy</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2012 20:58:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Master had invited over some people for a BDSM friends evening last night, I was excited because Goddess Starla was invited and I haven&#8217;t seen her in a little while, and I was excited to get her amazing feet in my mouth (I know, I&#8217;m selfish) &#8211; along with another couple who is not in the public eye thus will remain nameless. It was a very nice evening&#8230;the slaves served dinner, and serviced the superiors under the table, provided entertainment afterwards&#8230;then the slaves sort of cliqued up a bit and we started to talk amongst each other in the kitchen on the floor&#8230;this actually happens quite commonly, and I feel like our dominants are happy that it happens&#8230;it&#8217;s definitely nice to talk with other submissives, vent a bit, relate on a level that is impossible to relate with our dominants. I have my sister-slave to do this with, but the others don&#8217;t, and even for me it&#8217;s nice to talk to others. The topic of the evening that came up was a difficult one. Jealousy. Evil, evil word&#8230;evil emotion. Nothing about jealousy is good&#8230;it sucks in every way/shape/form. The reason it came up was because the &#8220;nameless slave&#8221; lets call him&#8230;Nameless, was only a few weeks into an open relationship with his Mistress, well&#8230;&#8221;open&#8221; isn&#8217;t quite the right word, &#8220;Cuckold relationship&#8221; is far more accurate. He had been locked up in chastity for quite a while, they&#8217;ve been together for years in fact, and only recently did she express that she was lacking in the sexual department. Personally, I can&#8217;t believe she lasted that long&#8230;I gasped, I thought that she was free to be with other men, for ages. I was impressed by her ability to stay monogomous, despite not being able to have &#8220;real&#8221; sex. I suppose that says a lot about Nameless&#8217; abilities with his tongue! Regardless though, he brought it up because he asked us how we deal with our jealousy, me of my Master, and Goddess Starla&#8217;s Cuckold relationship as well. Master is with other women, not too frequently, but often enough, and of course I had to contend with the house slave&#8230;and the entire time of him treating her better than he did with me&#8230;If you&#8217;re unfamiliar with what happened I blogged about it of course &#8211; click here to find out &#8211; so I&#8217;ve had my fair share of dealing with this evil emotion. I feel like we as humans have two brains. We have our old brain, I believe many people call it our &#8220;reptile brain&#8221; and this is responsible for many of our instincts, and primal emotions. Greed, jealousy, anger, fear among them. Then I feel like we have a big calculating computer sitting on top of it&#8230;and everything from the old brain gets filtered through this complex calculator that is our modern brain. I have absolutely no idea how accurate this is, maybe I heard it somewhere, maybe it&#8217;s completely ficticious&#8230;I have no idea. The point is that&#8217;s what it feels...]]></description>
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		<title>Things I love about BDSM: Cages</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/04/30/things-i-love-about-bdsm-cages/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2012 18:35:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was inspired by a good friend here at the Slaveduties.com Community to write some things about my BDSM lifestyle that I love, things that make me happy&#8230;as I do tend to vocalize a lot of the difficulties, stresses, and generally things that I don&#8217;t necessarily like here on my blog. I guess that&#8217;s because it&#8217;s a great place to vent&#8230;put my thoughts down in order to organize them. But I was absolutely inspired by her message and I think it&#8217;s a great idea! So, last night I was in my cage and I was trying to fall asleep but was having a pretty hard time of it. I opened my eyes, and looked around&#8230;now normally that would result in seeing just about absolute blackness, because my cage is in a side-closet and the door is usually closed, however for one reason or another that I cannot fathom, Master happened to leave the door to the closet open. The result was the ability to see out into a nice big room, dimly lit of course&#8230;but HUGE, in comparison to the tiny cramped confines that is my sleeping cage. My cage is very small, it fits&#8230;me &#8211; and that&#8217;s about it. I&#8217;m fairly petite, and I am basically scrunched up in my cage. There is no extending my legs, no standing up, no stretching in just about any way, shape or form. It has fairly thin bars but thicker than your average dog cage, and 2 large Master padlocks on the front door. I was looking around, and I thought&#8230;god I love this cage. I love my little home. I saw all of that vast expanse in that other room&#8230;the ability to stand up, feel free, be free, walk around&#8230;sit down, stretch out. And I honestly wanted no part of it at that moment! I loved my little confine. And the reason?&#8230; Safety. I feel safe in my little cage, in the closet. I feel packed away, stored, safe from the problems and the dangers of the outside world. I know that Master is in the other room in his nice big bed, looking out for me. I know that our multiple smoke and CO2 (I think that&#8217;s what they are) detectors will keep me safe. I know the daily check-ins with multiple other dominants will keep me safe. I know that the responsibility of my Master in keeping me healthy and safe, will keep me safe. There is something inside me as a slave that loves confinement. It&#8217;s hard to put a finger on it, I never have been quite able to. As I write this I am in my normal position of my thighs and calves bound together, on the floor, my neck has about a 3 inch chain that connects from my collar to a bolt on the floor, and my laptop is in front of me. This is my work position in which I do stuff online. I am confined&#8230;and yet, I couldn&#8217;t and wouldn&#8217;t have it any other...]]></description>
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		<title>MistreXXX Femdom Podcast &#8211; Episode 11</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/04/07/mistrexxx-femdom-podcast-episode-11/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Apr 2012 14:04:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[MistreXXX Podcast episode 11 is up, and I really want to support Mistress Irony and Mistress Tara as much as I possibly can. They do so much not only for their own slaves and inner-circles but for the community at large. This podcast is purely a vehicle to reach as many people as possible and talk about the realities of BDSM, that sometimes the internet over-hypes BDSM, that it&#8217;s not all like the porn that we produce. Master has always tried to show some of the realities of BDSM, the quiet times, the boring times, the times where you just don&#8217;t feel like being a slave, but you tough through it. It&#8217;s really nice to hear these two Mistresses really talk about their personal lives and behind the scenes lives and give their perspective on the scene, and what it&#8217;s like to be a pro-domme, a lifestyle Mistress, and in Irony&#8217;s case &#8211; what it&#8217;s like to also shoot adult BDSM video, particularly for her site, MistreXXX.com So check it out and please subscribe to them, and leave them some nice messages&#8230;they need your support and feedback! You can also see MistreXXX&#8217;s Youtube channel if you prefer that&#8230;her initial one got closed down (for a foot worship video she said, which blows my mind as there are like a million foot worship videos on youtube) &#8211; but anyway she made a new one and is re-uploading all her content to it over at www.youtube.com/Mistr3x.]]></description>
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		<title>Huge New BDSM and Bondage Caption Section Now Free to Members of Everydayslaves.com</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2008 15:21:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Master has included a huge new section of content free to members of his site - I decided to show a few off here for you to get a little taste of...they are very cool! Some are submitted by users like yourself, and others I wrote myself...kind of from my own point of view hehe]]></description>
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		<title>Kinky Fetish Fun &#8211; Sologirl brought to a whole new level</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2008/02/25/kinky-fetish-fun-sologirl-brough-to-a-whole-new-level/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2008 16:54:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes a girl just wants to have fun. It&#8217;s true! Kinky Zee is a fitting name for this energized fetish model. She isn&#8217;t what bondage aficionados would call &#8220;hardcore&#8221; &#8211; she is simply exploring her sexuality, and having fun doing it &#8211; and might I add looking hot while doing it! I have written about her before, because she does intrigue me. Her photographer is extremely adept, which of course helps &#8211; but Zee alone is simply stunningly gorgeous, like the girl in high-school you always fantasized about being this nasty dirty girl. Well, your dreams have come true! Her site is packed to the gills with elaborately portrayed fetish photography of her doing the craziest, kinkiest, nastiest things that a girl could do alone. Much like a girl too shy to talk about her sexual desires exploring them by herself in her bathroom, and bedroom&#8230;only we have it documented for us :) This first picture reminds me very much of myself a few years ago&#8230;exploring my desires to be tied up, I would tie myself up alone in my room&#8230;putting myself in sexual positions pretending someone was throwing me around, using and abusing me. And much like Kinky Zee, I would often worship my own shoes&#8230;pretending they were the shoes of some tall dark beautiful Mistress&#8230;alone in my room I would place my shoes in front of the bed, and kneel down in front of them on my knees and beg my imaginary Mistress to lick, clean, and worship her shoes. I think Zee fascinates me so because of all these memories I have of discovering myself, long before I ever became a real 24/7 BDSM slave. There is always room however for glamour fun! Why not? Kinky Zee pulls this off miraculously as well, she is a top notch model &#8211; with a body to die for, and can easily rank high up there with the world&#8217;s top models&#8230;so for you who do decide to join her site, your in for a world of enjoyment when you find out you have so much variety, and so many fantasy possibilities with this wonderful girl. Her pictures are stunning, however you do have hours upon hours upon hours of video to enjoy as well, Master joined up to the site and so I&#8217;ve been lucky enough to look around and enjoy the spectacle that is Kinky Zee. I&#8217;ve been locked in chastity for about a week now, and upon entering this site my body simply could not handle it&#8230;I&#8217;ve had 2 orgasms through a chastity device &#8211; without even being able to touch myself! I put my stamp of approval on this site, and if you aren&#8217;t interested in 24/7 BDSM or have already joined Everydayslaves.com (always my first pick 100%) &#8211; and are more interested in some extremely hot, fun, kinky exploration with a drop dead gorgeous lady&#8230;Join Kinky Zee!]]></description>
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