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		<title>BDSM Captions</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 15:37:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have recently kind of fallen in love with captions. I know, it&#8217;s a little strange I suppose in a world where such high quality video is so readily available &#8211; but I think captions are actually a nice little way to get some inspiration for our own imagination. It&#8217;s sort of like reading a book, or a story&#8230;your own mind can fill in a lot of the blanks with your own personalized fantasy. While I am mostly a huge video buff, I decided to give you guys a taste of some of the things I&#8217;ve been personally allowed to masturbate to recently! Ever since Master took me out of chastity, I&#8217;ve basically returned to my nymphomaniac ways and I think have been subconciously been trying to make up for lost time! I can&#8217;t get enough, and I imagine at some point Master will have to put a stop to it and begin regulating me again, but I think for now he&#8217;s happy to let me get off as many times as I can/want in a day &#8211; and to be perfectly honest the times in which my hands are free is pretty rare, usually only really when I&#8217;m working on the computer, so I can reach down &#8211; but I suppose I&#8217;m not that bad considering I&#8217;m tied up and unable to most of the day anyway Anyway, short update today &#8211; no revelations or deep thoughts&#8230;just some hot captions of hot slavegirls :) Enjoy!]]></description>
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		<title>Things I love about BDSM: Cages</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/04/30/things-i-love-about-bdsm-cages/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2012 18:35:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Slaveduties</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was inspired by a good friend here at the Slaveduties.com Community to write some things about my BDSM lifestyle that I love, things that make me happy&#8230;as I do tend to vocalize a lot of the difficulties, stresses, and generally things that I don&#8217;t necessarily like here on my blog. I guess that&#8217;s because it&#8217;s a great place to vent&#8230;put my thoughts down in order to organize them. But I was absolutely inspired by her message and I think it&#8217;s a great idea! So, last night I was in my cage and I was trying to fall asleep but was having a pretty hard time of it. I opened my eyes, and looked around&#8230;now normally that would result in seeing just about absolute blackness, because my cage is in a side-closet and the door is usually closed, however for one reason or another that I cannot fathom, Master happened to leave the door to the closet open. The result was the ability to see out into a nice big room, dimly lit of course&#8230;but HUGE, in comparison to the tiny cramped confines that is my sleeping cage. My cage is very small, it fits&#8230;me &#8211; and that&#8217;s about it. I&#8217;m fairly petite, and I am basically scrunched up in my cage. There is no extending my legs, no standing up, no stretching in just about any way, shape or form. It has fairly thin bars but thicker than your average dog cage, and 2 large Master padlocks on the front door. I was looking around, and I thought&#8230;god I love this cage. I love my little home. I saw all of that vast expanse in that other room&#8230;the ability to stand up, feel free, be free, walk around&#8230;sit down, stretch out. And I honestly wanted no part of it at that moment! I loved my little confine. And the reason?&#8230; Safety. I feel safe in my little cage, in the closet. I feel packed away, stored, safe from the problems and the dangers of the outside world. I know that Master is in the other room in his nice big bed, looking out for me. I know that our multiple smoke and CO2 (I think that&#8217;s what they are) detectors will keep me safe. I know the daily check-ins with multiple other dominants will keep me safe. I know that the responsibility of my Master in keeping me healthy and safe, will keep me safe. There is something inside me as a slave that loves confinement. It&#8217;s hard to put a finger on it, I never have been quite able to. As I write this I am in my normal position of my thighs and calves bound together, on the floor, my neck has about a 3 inch chain that connects from my collar to a bolt on the floor, and my laptop is in front of me. This is my work position in which I do stuff online. I am confined&#8230;and yet, I couldn&#8217;t and wouldn&#8217;t have it any other...]]></description>
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		<title>MistreXXX Femdom Podcast &#8211; Episode 12</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/04/27/mistrexxx-femdom-podcast-episode-12/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2012 16:45:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Another wonderful podcast by my good friends at MistreXXX.com! This time Mistress Tara couldn&#8217;t make it but Mistress Irony and &#34;Slave2.0&#34; as he has come to be known had a great show anyway! I watched it live when they broadcasted and it was simply amazing. I love watching them, it&#8217;s super entertaining, and quite informative as well &#8211; even for a lifestyler myself, but they really do address many of the issues that arise for newcomers as well. All around a very well-rounded show that is not only informative but just super entertaining, fun, and enjoyable to listen to. I listened to it while I was doing some work on the site, it&#8217;s very cool to have a BDSM related podcast to listen to! I&#8217;d like to give a lot of love to Slave2.0 who really helped get Slaveduties.com back on it&#8217;s feet after the crash. More news on that soon though! In the meantime, watch the VOD of the show below!!! Trust me, you won&#8217;t regret it, and it supports them tremendously.]]></description>
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		<title>For Aspiring Femdoms</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/04/12/for-aspiring-femdoms/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2012 15:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A question that often comes up in the community is &#34;how do I get my partner into this?&#34;. This is probably the most popular question on just about any forum, and it definitely is a difficult one. I don&#8217;t think there is any magic bullet to it&#8230;BDSM is a pretty specific thing, and most people aren&#8217;t into it &#8211; that&#8217;s just a fact. That being said, I do think it&#8217;s possible to pique someone&#8217;s interest and see where it goes. I love this video by MistreXXX.com because while I don&#8217;t think it will convince your significant other to all of a sudden become a powerful Femdom, I do think it can be used as one tool amongst many (articles, stories, conversation&#8230;etc.) to persuade them to just try, or to maybe get an understanding of the perks of living in a 24/7 D/s lifestyle. Anyway, if you&#8217;re interested in getting your better half to get into femdom, I recommend giving this video a gander :)]]></description>
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		<title>MistreXXX Femdom Podcast &#8211; Episode 11</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/04/07/mistrexxx-femdom-podcast-episode-11/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Apr 2012 14:04:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[MistreXXX Podcast episode 11 is up, and I really want to support Mistress Irony and Mistress Tara as much as I possibly can. They do so much not only for their own slaves and inner-circles but for the community at large. This podcast is purely a vehicle to reach as many people as possible and talk about the realities of BDSM, that sometimes the internet over-hypes BDSM, that it&#8217;s not all like the porn that we produce. Master has always tried to show some of the realities of BDSM, the quiet times, the boring times, the times where you just don&#8217;t feel like being a slave, but you tough through it. It&#8217;s really nice to hear these two Mistresses really talk about their personal lives and behind the scenes lives and give their perspective on the scene, and what it&#8217;s like to be a pro-domme, a lifestyle Mistress, and in Irony&#8217;s case &#8211; what it&#8217;s like to also shoot adult BDSM video, particularly for her site, MistreXXX.com So check it out and please subscribe to them, and leave them some nice messages&#8230;they need your support and feedback! You can also see MistreXXX&#8217;s Youtube channel if you prefer that&#8230;her initial one got closed down (for a foot worship video she said, which blows my mind as there are like a million foot worship videos on youtube) &#8211; but anyway she made a new one and is re-uploading all her content to it over at www.youtube.com/Mistr3x.]]></description>
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		<title>MistreXXX Femdom Podcast #10 &#8211; Guest: Mistress Tara</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/04/02/mistrexxx-femdom-podcast-10-guest-mistress-tara/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Apr 2012 14:35:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Slaveduties</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Personally I think that MistreXXX took their podcast to a whole new level this week&#8230;I watched it live, and was totally enthralled with the awesome and casual conversation by two super-ultra dominant women, alongside my good friend and very submissive male, as Mistress has so lovingly dubbed him &#34;Slave2.0&#34; &#8211; because he takes care of a lot of the technical mumbo jumbo for a lot of us! The part that struck me the most was when Slave2.0 asked Mistress Tara if she&#8217;s ever had or has any lifestyle slaves. She pops off the headset, calls someone, and a few minutes later her 24/7 lifestyle slave of 4 years comes on and answers questions! What?! So amazing&#8230;I mean, the spontaneous addition of a lifestyle slave like myself to a podcast conversation blew my mind. &#160; The really nice thing about this podcast series is that Slave2.0 and Mistress Irony of MistreXXX talk about the realities of living this fantasy as a lifestyle. And they also talk about working in the adult industry in general. The stories they tell are hilarious, especially for me because I&#8217;ve been present for some of them, but it&#8217;s also just really cool to get a casual conversation about this. Normally online everything is sort of hyper-stylized, which is fine&#8230;it enhances the fantasy, I&#8217;m guilty of it myself &#8211; but this has the opportunity to bring us back down to earth and have a real discussion. I really encourage all of you to watch online, I&#8217;ve placed a timer at the top of my website here so you guys know exactly when it&#8217;s going to go live :) Enjoy!]]></description>
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		<title>Nothing Good Comes Easily</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/03/27/nothing-good-comes-easily/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2012 16:01:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is something inherently dark about BDSM &#8211; it generally lives in the dark recesses of our minds, especially if you dont&#8217; live in a 24/7 relationship and you need to conceal it from the world. I love the dark feel of this video because for me it really encompasses that dark feeling I get when I am being beaten&#8230;or when I&#8217;m being humiliated. This darkness comes from the deepest darkest pits of me, and it only grows the more I am beaten or humiliated. Like in this video, when Master comes out of the darkness to torture this poor slave girl. I feel something deep inside me&#8230; It&#8217;s hard to explain just how it feels to be helpless and humiliated&#8230;you don&#8217;t have a choice in the matter of what happens to you. It&#8217;s a feeling that you don&#8217;t really understand until it actually happens. When your head is being forces down, a cock being literally forced into your throat, whether you gag or not&#8230;it feels like endorphins get pumped into my body, and I fly into the stratosphere, just like I&#8217;m sure it happens to Daisy Dukes in this amazing video by Wasteland.com It&#8217;s funny how we can find freedom in bondage&#8230;I think it&#8217;s just a matter of how our brain reacts to adversity. I don&#8217;t have any other explanation for it&#8230;maybe it&#8217;s something like a &#34;Runners High&#34; or something. But seeing this video, and the roughness of it definitely brings out that darkness in me. I&#8217;ve also seen the whole thing, not just the trailer so I know just how brutal it gets. And it just drives me absolutely crazy. I just watched this video again and it kind of prompted this little rant that I wanted to share. And what prompted me to watch this video again was the fact that last night Master put me outside in the garden last night, naked as usual except for the bindings keeping my arms behind my back in a &#34;Reverse prayer&#34; and my posture collar&#8230;there is still some snow on the ground here in Montreal, and my feet began to freeze. He did all this because when I was sucking his cock prior, I made the mistake of removing my mouth from his cock to answer a question. Which is a very amateur mistake&#8230;it&#8217;s expected of me to answer his questions while his cock remains in my throat. I didn&#8217;t have a say in the matter, he just tossed me outside and locked the door. It was terrible, but I learned my lesson&#8230;I doubt it will happen again, even by mistake. But the point is, losing control, losing the ability to say &#34;no, you are not putting me outside naked and bound to freeze.&#34; &#8211; that is such a foreign concept. It boggles my mind even as I sit on the floor here with my little laptop typing this out. He is sitting at his nice desk comfortable in his chair and my knees are hurting because I&#8217;m kneeling...]]></description>
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		<title>MistreXXX is Here! My big reveal!</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/01/13/mistrexxx-is-here-my-big-reveal/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2012 15:32:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Slaveduties</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[All right everyone&#8230;the time is finally upon me to announce what I&#8217;ve been working on lately! Welcome MistreXXX.com :D I had a big hand in the creation of this website, and I am beyond proud to be a part of it. Mistress Irony whom the site really focuses on is a great friend of ours, and Master bestowed upon me the responsibility of working with her and her &#34;web slave&#34; to put her site together. It may seem a simple task, but I can assure you that it took an extraordinary amount of work to make it what it is. Before I go on, please check out this awesome trailer for the site! So MistreXXX.com is similar to our other very good friend&#8217;s site as you all know Femdombride.com in that it is a site dedicated to documenting and following a wonderful Mistress in her awesome adventures as a lifestyle femdom. The kinky lifestyle is really something that many people unfortunately can&#8217;t live realistically, so being able to provide something that gives a glimpse into it so that others can experience it is something that makes me really proud. Mistress Irony is quite a domme as well, she is cruel yet&#8230;kind. It&#8217;s kind of eerie how cute and sweet she can look and soundwhile being so cruel and evil. There is a ton of content already in the site, despite being new &#8211; she has been shooting a lot and there is a lot waiting for people when they enter her site. If you are into femdom, I really do hope you join and enjoy the site&#8230;and let us know what you think! I think it&#8217;s pretty amazing that a lowly slave such as myself could have had a part in creating this site&#8230;I feel a pride that I have never really felt before. I feel like I really accomplished something&#8230;and it feels amazing. I&#8217;d really like to thank Mistress and Master for having the trust and faith in me to put me in that position&#8230;I&#8217;d also like to thank her web slave for being patient and working with me. He was very corteous and we spent much time on Skype solving problems, brainstorming, and working hand-in-hand. It was amazing, and I look forward to continuing as we grow the site! Another awesome thing about Mistress Irony is her dedication to stepping outside of the traditional content box&#8230;she already has multiple vlogs up and a podcast&#8230;and I know she&#8217;s doing another podcast this afternoon which I&#8217;ll post as well. Here&#8217;s their first podcast&#8230;it features her and the webslave that I&#8217;ve been talking about &#8211; and of course she also has a dedicated Blog just like me! If you want to check out the rest of her vlogs and podcasts as they come up (I&#8217;ll also post them here on my site) you can check her blip.tv channel where they are all published. So&#8230;another site joins the family. And I hope all of my readers go over there and lend her...]]></description>
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		<title>Introspection in a BDSM Lifestyle</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2011/05/10/introspection-in-a-bdsm-lifestyle/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 May 2011 19:29:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Looking at one&#8217;s self introspectively can be a really difficult thing for anybody. Taking a step back and trying to look at yourself with an objective perspective is not only extremely hard, but I think necessary for all of us to do once in a while. Perhaps even moreso for those of us who live 24/7 in a BDSM lifestyle &#8211; it&#8217;s important to make sure your still on track, and making sure your happy in your circumstances. It&#8217;s good to kind of take inventory of one&#8217;s life, and think about making adjustments if need be. Recently a lot of stuff has changed in my life. I&#8217;m taking more of an integrated role in Masters work. I&#8217;m present on many shoots, I&#8217;ve been getting better at working on the computer, as there is always so much to do to maintain the websites and everything. I&#8217;ve been working really hard on a new version of slaveduties for you guys, namely the entire community aspect and the forums&#8230;it&#8217;s all pretty awesome and amazing. Taking a look at myself, I kinda like what I&#8217;m becoming. Don&#8217;t get me wrong&#8230;I&#8217;m still beaten on a daily basis, humiliated to tears, spend hours in bondage&#8230;but on top of all that, I find myself a lot more productive and contributing more to our household. That isn&#8217;t to take anything away from the house slave, she has her role, just as I do. Master enjoys her in her role, and we both must accept his judgement. I also find that having to use my brain more is really difficult&#8230;but I enjoy the satisfaction when I am done a task on the computer for example, I crawl over to Master, and I can shut off my brain as he invades my throat with his member. I gag, my eyes water, and I can go to that place where I don&#8217;t need to think&#8230;just linger in the moments of pain and humiliation. It makes me appreciate the time I spend in bondage, my muscles aching &#8211; every second feeling like an hour, yet it never feels like it&#8217;s long enough. I beg with Master to just leave me in until tomorrow&#8230; It&#8217;s teaching me that balance is so important. One makes you appreciate the other so much more. So I&#8217;m happy to be becoming more balanced, mainly of course because it&#8217;s what Master wants. He is happy that I&#8217;m evolving like this, and so ultimately that is what is making me the most happy. I just wanted to post a quick update to let you all know that some cool things are coming, and life has been good! Also in response to some comments on my previous post, I&#8217;m not ignoring you &#8211; I&#8217;m going to dedicate a post to talking about some of those points of discussion :)]]></description>
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		<title>BDSM Out of the Darkness</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2011/04/27/bdsm-out-of-the-darkness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Apr 2011 17:37:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s amazing how relatable BDSM is to so many things in life. For example, there is nothing like the fear of the unknown. Humans have always been fearful of that which we did not know and understand. We are afraid of darkness because we cannot easily see predators, our imaginations go wild with the possibilities, our minds must fill up the void of darkness that surrounds us. Many times, it is all just in our heads &#8211; perhaps an instictual desire to make sure we are not snuck up upon, a defense mechanism. In this poor whore&#8217;s case&#8230;she is not so lucky. She is bound cruelly in Wasteland&#8217;s BDSM dungeon, and she damn well knows she is in for something awful. This is one of the most terrible and exhilerating feelings a slave can undergo. It&#8217;s terrible to know you are going to experience horrible things, you will be in pain, you will be humiliated, dehumanized&#8230;but the calm before the storm is the worse part. Unable to move, bound and completely helpless to change the outcome of what will happen to you. And then before you know it, it&#8217;s all upon you &#8211; and you find yourself in love with that awful beast that is doing such terrible things to you. Wasteland once again sends my own mind reeling, my own desires flowing, and reminding me that I am so lucky to have the life that I have! Hope you guys enjoy the video and please do check out Wasteland! Very good friends of Master, I, and Goddess Starla as well, they have like 15 years worth of content&#8230;it&#8217;s pretty ridiculous &#8211; so definitely give them a shot and show some support to the pillars of the online BDSM community :) &#160;]]></description>
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