RSS Digg

News

BDSM News – Girl ‘signed S&M contract’

As a fulltime 24/7 slave, stories like this give me the creeps. I think anyone who thinks a contract gives you grounds to abuse someone who doesn’t want it, has to have brain damage. What kind of shit for brains would actually believe that? This Danish man apparently.

I’m used and abused daily. I get peed on and caged, and beaten…I wake up and my morning routine involves all sorts of bodily fluids. I love the fact that my morning routine involves anal sex. I love the fact that I am woken up when Master decides he wants me up, and through the bars in my cage I receive his morning cock. I look forward to it…because I want it! This poor woman in the story didn’t…and thats where it becomes wrong.

“Copenhagen – A Danish court has jailed a man for sexually abusing his former girlfriend, despite the fact that she had signed a contract agreeing to be his sex slave, media here reported on Friday.

The 24-year-old man, whose name was not given, had held a woman with whom he had previously had a sadomasochistic relationship bound in a cellar.

He whipped and raped her, but insisted she had agreed to the abuse by signing a “sex slave contract,” the Ritzau news agency reported.

A Copenhagen court ruled the man had tricked her into signing the contract, and sentenced him to three years behind bars.

The couple had met after splitting up so the woman could sign some papers.

She told the court she had not noticed he had slipped a contract into the pile stating that she agreed to be his slave in a sadomasochistic relationship, Ritzau reported.

The man had shown up at her apartment a week later, handcuffed and gagged her and drove her to their former home. After abusing her, he had left her chained to a water pipe in the cellar, from where she had finally managed to escape.

In addition to the prison term, the court sentenced the 24-year-old to pay his former girlfriend compensation of about €9 600.

I actually think its harder being a dominant than a submissive sometimes…you have to walk this fine line, because as a slave, we want things done to us that we don’t want. We want to be tortured…at least some of us do. So as a dominant you need to give just enough torture to fulfill our cravings for it, but not become so abusive that pushes us beyond our limits. I have a very high tolerance for abuse, and if I didn’t receive it daily, I’d be depressed – its just how I’m built, I can’t help it.

On the other side of the coin…always read what your going to sign!

By Slaveduties | 22 September 2008 | Sharing | , , , , , | 5 Comments   

When fun goes bad

It’s been a long time since I’ve had regular interaction with people, but I remember many times as a teenager, and even now I still see it from time to time when things turn from fun to serious. I hate it. I hate it when theres that switch, and something that was previously enjoyable and desirable becomes serious and bad. I don’t understand why people can’t use common sense and logic. I’m a full-time slave and loving it, and it’s largely due to the fact of the use of common sense and logic! Yes my life is difficult, yes I’m abused, yes I’m technically a sex slave, and every other type of slave you can think of – the difference is that I’m willing! I never needed to sign any papers…what contract could honestly legally cover this type of relationship?

A disturbing story to say the least

Copenhagen - “A Danish court has jailed a man for sexually abusing his former girlfriend, despite the fact that she had signed a contract agreeing to be his sex slave, media here reported on Friday.

The 24-year-old man, whose name was not given, had held a woman with whom he had previously had a sadomasochistic relationship bound in a cellar.

He whipped and raped her, but insisted she had agreed to the abuse by signing a “sex slave contract,” the Ritzau news agency reported.

A Copenhagen court ruled the man had tricked her into signing the contract, and sentenced him to three years behind bars.

The couple had met after splitting up so the woman could sign some papers.

She told the court she had not noticed he had slipped a contract into the pile stating that she agreed to be his slave in a sadomasochistic relationship, Ritzau reported.

The man had shown up at her apartment a week later, handcuffed and gagged her and drove her to their former home. After abusing her, he had left her chained to a water pipe in the cellar, from where she had finally managed to escape.

In addition to the prison term, the court sentenced the 24-year-old to pay his former girlfriend compensation of about €9 600.”

By Slaveduties | 01 May 2008 | Sharing | , | 3 Comments   

BDSM Business

bdsm dungeon

Master (and therefore I) operates within the online “sex business” or more specifically the “BDSM Business”, and I know for a fact it’s very tough for people to cope with the fact that many people out there want to see people like us burned at the stake. Several of Master’s family members and friends have condemned him, or cut-off all contact with him because of his work on-line. He knew it would probably happen, but how can you not follow your dreams because certain people in your life disagree with them? Master has always been open with everyone…has never lied about what he does, because hes not ashamed of it – and he shouldn’t be. Sex is as clean, as any other business…and personally I think the BDSM industry in particular is even cleaner…at least in my experience most people in the fetish realm are extremely safe, and sane people…safe,sane, consensual is the motto that the vast majority of us live by, and diverging from those rules is strictly looked down upon the entire S&M community.

Life gets even more complicated when you live in a house-hold with 2 slaves, and a girl that’s essentially been a dog for months. How do you explain this lifestyle, these kinks, and these choices to people not within the same realm of thought? But how can you lie to the world about yourself either? I think some great points in this article are quoted below…how can you have sex with your wife and never explore those kinks, never feeling fulfilled, its like having an itch that you choose not to scratch.

Human nature is to be afraid of the unknown…which was probably a leading factor in why this species got to where it did…but times have changed, and we must evolve – understanding shall be our new evolutionary goal, being fearful of that which we don’t understand or don’t want to understand is becoming phased out and passé – If we are all to live peacefully on this planet, we must get used to understanding each other and not discriminating against race, religion….or kink.

Excerpt:

Perhaps the most poignant moment came at the end of the night when Shankbone was waiting to be escorted out (to avoid running into a client). Rebecca came into the room and sat on the sofa. “You know, a lot of people out there would like to see me burn for what I do,” she says. Rebecca is a woman who has faced challenges in her life, and dealt with them the best she could given her circumstances. She sees herself as providing a service to people who have needs, no matter how debauched the outside world deems them. We sat talking politics (she’s supporting Hillary) and the irony that and about mutual challenges we have both faced. It was in this conversation that Shankbone saw that humanity can be found anywhere, including in places that appear on the surface to cater to the inhumanity some people in our society feel towards themselves, or others.

“The best way to describe it,” says Bill, “is if you had a kink, and you had a wife and you had two kids, and every time you had sex with your wife it just didn’t hit the nail on the head. What would you do about it? How would you handle it? You might go through life feeling unfulfilled. Or you might say, ‘No, my kink is I really need to dress in women’s clothing.’ We’re that outlet. We’re not the evil devil out here, plucking people off the street, keeping them chained up for days on end.”

Source: Wikinewsreport | Interview with owners

By Slaveduties | 28 January 2008 | News | , , , , , , | 1 Comment