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		<title>BDSM Captions</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 15:37:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have recently kind of fallen in love with captions. I know, it&#8217;s a little strange I suppose in a world where such high quality video is so readily available &#8211; but I think captions are actually a nice little way to get some inspiration for our own imagination. It&#8217;s sort of like reading a book, or a story&#8230;your own mind can fill in a lot of the blanks with your own personalized fantasy. While I am mostly a huge video buff, I decided to give you guys a taste of some of the things I&#8217;ve been personally allowed to masturbate to recently! Ever since Master took me out of chastity, I&#8217;ve basically returned to my nymphomaniac ways and I think have been subconciously been trying to make up for lost time! I can&#8217;t get enough, and I imagine at some point Master will have to put a stop to it and begin regulating me again, but I think for now he&#8217;s happy to let me get off as many times as I can/want in a day &#8211; and to be perfectly honest the times in which my hands are free is pretty rare, usually only really when I&#8217;m working on the computer, so I can reach down &#8211; but I suppose I&#8217;m not that bad considering I&#8217;m tied up and unable to most of the day anyway Anyway, short update today &#8211; no revelations or deep thoughts&#8230;just some hot captions of hot slavegirls :) Enjoy!]]></description>
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		<title>Things I love about BDSM: Over-Stimulation</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 19:54:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Over-stimulation is a very fine line. It has the ability to put you in a very bad place, or the most amazing of places&#8230;and both of those places have a lot of value to a dominant. Sometimes, during a legitimate training session, in which Master is trying to break a habit out of me, correcting me, breaking my spirit to further my submissive downward-spiral as it were, he wants to put me in a very negative place&#8230;a place I want to exit from as soon as possible. Over-stimulation during this type of corrective or adjustment sessions is brutal because it&#8217;s too much, too fast, and the worse part is that you simply never know when it will end. When you have mutliple sensations attacking you from different angles what ends up happening is your brain sort of fritz&#8217;s out (That&#8217;s the scientific term by the way). During these times and directly after is when mental reconstruction works the best, because I am like putty&#8230;maleable in the hands of Master. He can adjust me over multiple sessions &#8211; and I feel like it&#8217;s because my brain has shut down and went into a primal state, which in some sense kind of like a survival mechanism. To deal with the pain, the pleasure, the over-stimulation of my senses, my brain must shut off &#8211; and thus&#8230;I am a lot easier to influence. I know this because I have many things &#34;adjusted&#34; over the years&#8230;.bad habits changed, ideas changed, submission brought to a whole new level. I will recognize it sometime later, thinking about something differently&#8230;remembering to change the toilet paper rolls for example&#8230;I had missed one once which resulted in a session that focused on nothing but my desire to change toilet paper rolls&#8230;I am not fanatical, almost OCD about changing them. On the other hand&#8230;and this is extremely difficult to do, but I think it comes from experience and Master just knowing my body so intimately and masterfully that he can put me in an over-stimulated state and I just never want to leave. My brain shuts off in the same way, but it&#8217;s done in such a pleasurable way that literally hours can pass and I have no idea. I think both are forms of &#34;sub-space&#34; as we call it, but as a direct result of multiple sensations attacking you simultaneously. Having your clit stimulated, a dildo in your pussy, in your ass, nipples being pulled hard, wax dripping down you, clamps on your sides, being asked questions, suspended upside down&#8230;your brain has to allocate resources to all of those different sensations&#8230;both pleasurable and painful. It is an amazing sensation and browsing through some of Wasteland.com&#8217;s videos I remember this one vividly of Slave Giselle and her several experiences with Goddess Starla and in this particular video with a Master who asked to remain masked&#8230;she got completely over-stimulated, and fell into a sub-space I am all too familiar with, and I could see in her eyes that she becomes absolutely...]]></description>
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		<title>Irrational Fears in BDSM</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/05/03/irrational-fears-in-bdsm/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 May 2012 17:51:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s easy for one&#8217;s irrational fears to come to the forefront when our primary sense is removed from us, in a BDSM situation&#8230;indeed likely in just about any situation at all. When we cannot see, our brains seem to automatically try and fill in the blanks, generally with our worst fears. Despite knowing we are in a safe environment, we just seem to fill in the void that the lack of our eyesight with fear. I&#8217;m not sure why it is, but ultimately &#8211; I&#8217;m kind of glad for it. It gets my heart racing, it gets my pussy wet, it makes me breath hard and panic a little. Why I love these things, I don&#8217;t know &#8211; but I was checking out Wasteland.com&#8217;s new BDSM videos &#8211; as I do &#8211; and I couldn&#8217;t help but have to put my fingers between my legs. I know exactly what Slave Ava is feeling, despite knowing she is in a safe environment&#8230;it&#8217;s frustrating. You don&#8217;t know where the pain is going to land, you don&#8217;t know when it&#8217;s going to come. You just know it&#8217;s going to come&#8230;and this results in a constant fear and tension that is quite honestly exhausting, but at the same time is so intensely fulfilling. Maybe I&#8217;m a bit of an adrenaline junky in this sense, but things that get my heart rate up, things that push my limits are the things I love. Thankfully I have a Master that can dole out such experiences seemingly with little to no effort at all. I&#8217;m also a huge fan of Wasteland.com because they are such good friends of ours, and I thoroughly enjoy their unique brand of content. I know how authentic it is because I&#8217;ve been there, I&#8217;ve been present during some of their shoots. I know the tears are real, I know the pain is real, because I&#8217;ve helped console a slave after her painful session. It was a tremendous honor to do so, and it is amazing that as an organization they know how to take care of the people they work with, whether I am there or not, their reputation for care and passion for safe, sane, consensual BDSM is absolutely sterling.]]></description>
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		<title>Things I love about BDSM: Cages</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/04/30/things-i-love-about-bdsm-cages/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2012 18:35:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was inspired by a good friend here at the Slaveduties.com Community to write some things about my BDSM lifestyle that I love, things that make me happy&#8230;as I do tend to vocalize a lot of the difficulties, stresses, and generally things that I don&#8217;t necessarily like here on my blog. I guess that&#8217;s because it&#8217;s a great place to vent&#8230;put my thoughts down in order to organize them. But I was absolutely inspired by her message and I think it&#8217;s a great idea! So, last night I was in my cage and I was trying to fall asleep but was having a pretty hard time of it. I opened my eyes, and looked around&#8230;now normally that would result in seeing just about absolute blackness, because my cage is in a side-closet and the door is usually closed, however for one reason or another that I cannot fathom, Master happened to leave the door to the closet open. The result was the ability to see out into a nice big room, dimly lit of course&#8230;but HUGE, in comparison to the tiny cramped confines that is my sleeping cage. My cage is very small, it fits&#8230;me &#8211; and that&#8217;s about it. I&#8217;m fairly petite, and I am basically scrunched up in my cage. There is no extending my legs, no standing up, no stretching in just about any way, shape or form. It has fairly thin bars but thicker than your average dog cage, and 2 large Master padlocks on the front door. I was looking around, and I thought&#8230;god I love this cage. I love my little home. I saw all of that vast expanse in that other room&#8230;the ability to stand up, feel free, be free, walk around&#8230;sit down, stretch out. And I honestly wanted no part of it at that moment! I loved my little confine. And the reason?&#8230; Safety. I feel safe in my little cage, in the closet. I feel packed away, stored, safe from the problems and the dangers of the outside world. I know that Master is in the other room in his nice big bed, looking out for me. I know that our multiple smoke and CO2 (I think that&#8217;s what they are) detectors will keep me safe. I know the daily check-ins with multiple other dominants will keep me safe. I know that the responsibility of my Master in keeping me healthy and safe, will keep me safe. There is something inside me as a slave that loves confinement. It&#8217;s hard to put a finger on it, I never have been quite able to. As I write this I am in my normal position of my thighs and calves bound together, on the floor, my neck has about a 3 inch chain that connects from my collar to a bolt on the floor, and my laptop is in front of me. This is my work position in which I do stuff online. I am confined&#8230;and yet, I couldn&#8217;t and wouldn&#8217;t have it any other...]]></description>
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		<title>MistreXXX Femdom Podcast &#8211; Episode 12</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/04/27/mistrexxx-femdom-podcast-episode-12/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2012 16:45:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Another wonderful podcast by my good friends at MistreXXX.com! This time Mistress Tara couldn&#8217;t make it but Mistress Irony and &#34;Slave2.0&#34; as he has come to be known had a great show anyway! I watched it live when they broadcasted and it was simply amazing. I love watching them, it&#8217;s super entertaining, and quite informative as well &#8211; even for a lifestyler myself, but they really do address many of the issues that arise for newcomers as well. All around a very well-rounded show that is not only informative but just super entertaining, fun, and enjoyable to listen to. I listened to it while I was doing some work on the site, it&#8217;s very cool to have a BDSM related podcast to listen to! I&#8217;d like to give a lot of love to Slave2.0 who really helped get Slaveduties.com back on it&#8217;s feet after the crash. More news on that soon though! In the meantime, watch the VOD of the show below!!! Trust me, you won&#8217;t regret it, and it supports them tremendously.]]></description>
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		<title>The Little Things in a BDSM lifestyle</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/04/07/the-little-things-in-a-bdsm-lifestyle/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Apr 2012 17:16:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In life, often times it&#8217;s the little things that can make such a huge difference. This is a quick update, but basically&#8230;yesterday I helped Master film a concert he got hired to do. That meant about 6 hours of being on my feet running around, moving things&#8230;and harder than shooting porn, with this during the actual show I had to stand still for 2 hours and basically not move and move the camera around. We used a pretty awesome camera called a Sony EX-1 that we rented for this event, and it&#8217;s pretty heavy! All this to say, by the time we got home&#8230;I was exhausted. Completely fried&#8230;my body was aching from head to toe. Worse part is, we have to do it all over again tonight &#8211; and tomorrow night! It&#8217;s not a bad thing, Master is very glad to do it, and it&#8217;s paying pretty well&#8230;but basically Master helped me shower, and then he did something he just about never does. He put a blanket and a pillow in my cage. This may sound like a small thing, but as someone who feels the thin bars of my cage in my body as I sleep every night &#8211; this was HUGE for me. I woke up this morning feeling a lot better, and then I scoured the internet for hours to find this image&#8230;to find something that kind of represents what I experienced last night. It&#8217;s the little things in life, especially a BDSM lifestyle that involves a lot of physical hardship that really bring you back above water and make you so happy :) I just wanted to share that!&#8230; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160;]]></description>
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		<title>Nothing Good Comes Easily</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/03/27/nothing-good-comes-easily/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2012 16:01:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is something inherently dark about BDSM &#8211; it generally lives in the dark recesses of our minds, especially if you dont&#8217; live in a 24/7 relationship and you need to conceal it from the world. I love the dark feel of this video because for me it really encompasses that dark feeling I get when I am being beaten&#8230;or when I&#8217;m being humiliated. This darkness comes from the deepest darkest pits of me, and it only grows the more I am beaten or humiliated. Like in this video, when Master comes out of the darkness to torture this poor slave girl. I feel something deep inside me&#8230; It&#8217;s hard to explain just how it feels to be helpless and humiliated&#8230;you don&#8217;t have a choice in the matter of what happens to you. It&#8217;s a feeling that you don&#8217;t really understand until it actually happens. When your head is being forces down, a cock being literally forced into your throat, whether you gag or not&#8230;it feels like endorphins get pumped into my body, and I fly into the stratosphere, just like I&#8217;m sure it happens to Daisy Dukes in this amazing video by Wasteland.com It&#8217;s funny how we can find freedom in bondage&#8230;I think it&#8217;s just a matter of how our brain reacts to adversity. I don&#8217;t have any other explanation for it&#8230;maybe it&#8217;s something like a &#34;Runners High&#34; or something. But seeing this video, and the roughness of it definitely brings out that darkness in me. I&#8217;ve also seen the whole thing, not just the trailer so I know just how brutal it gets. And it just drives me absolutely crazy. I just watched this video again and it kind of prompted this little rant that I wanted to share. And what prompted me to watch this video again was the fact that last night Master put me outside in the garden last night, naked as usual except for the bindings keeping my arms behind my back in a &#34;Reverse prayer&#34; and my posture collar&#8230;there is still some snow on the ground here in Montreal, and my feet began to freeze. He did all this because when I was sucking his cock prior, I made the mistake of removing my mouth from his cock to answer a question. Which is a very amateur mistake&#8230;it&#8217;s expected of me to answer his questions while his cock remains in my throat. I didn&#8217;t have a say in the matter, he just tossed me outside and locked the door. It was terrible, but I learned my lesson&#8230;I doubt it will happen again, even by mistake. But the point is, losing control, losing the ability to say &#34;no, you are not putting me outside naked and bound to freeze.&#34; &#8211; that is such a foreign concept. It boggles my mind even as I sit on the floor here with my little laptop typing this out. He is sitting at his nice desk comfortable in his chair and my knees are hurting because I&#8217;m kneeling...]]></description>
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		<title>The Daily Grind</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2012/03/19/the-daily-grind/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Mar 2012 14:15:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The daily grind, I think I&#8217;ve come to love it. As many of you know I had a pretty hard time in my teens and early 20&#8242;s&#8230;being such a submissive and obsessed with the 24/7 BDSM lifestyle I basically dedicated my life to finding a Master and becoming the ultimate slave. When I started this blog, I thought I had finally found that&#8230;and indeed to this day I think I have. It&#8217;s not an easy life, as you can imagine. Pain and suffering are a constant&#8230;humiliation, degradation, and an intense desire to constantly try and be better &#8211; so as I remain relevant are a constant. This is on purpose of course &#8211; elegantly designed by Master in order to keep me at my absolute peak of servitude at all times. But anyone who has spent any amount of time in the chat with me knows how often I use the smiley face emoticon. I smile&#8230;a LOT. I can&#8217;t help it, I&#8217;m a happy slave. I am happy in these conditions and I wouldn&#8217;t trade it for the world. But in the last year or so, something else has gripped me&#8230;deeply. Work. I love to work! I love the satisfaction of creating something, showing it my Master, feeling the glow of his approval, and finally publishing it for the world to see and enjoy. Having the friends we have and working together has been and continues to be an amazing experience. Goddess Starla and Mistress Irony as well as our friends over at Wasteland are just such a joy to be around. They look at me with&#8230;respect. I am respected because I work hard, and because I do good work. I can&#8217;t begin to explain how good this feels. It makes me feel like I have worth, and yet at any moment they can grind me under their heel (which they often do) &#8211; and it gives me this previously unkown feeling. To be respected for one&#8217;s work, yet still absolutely submissive upon request. Years ago, I had wanted to be a mindless slave&#8230;locked up, shut away &#8211; never to think like a human again. I have never been so happy that something I wanted didn&#8217;t end up happening. I have done runs of that life, weeks on end&#8230;and while it was blissfully tormenting and I look forward to more weeks in lock up, I don&#8217;t think it could ever match the satisfaction I feel when I have done good work and published something good. Something like Slaveduties.com &#8211; or designing graphics, or helping shoot content for various web sites. There is absolutely satisfaction in hard work. And let me tell you&#8230;it is HARD. Everyone seems to think working in the porn industry is all glitz and glamour. I want to shed some light on that. Very long work days&#8230;this is a big one. The days are so damn long. At the end of a day, my back is literally killing me. The amount of running around, getting lights, picking...]]></description>
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		<title>Blog and Community Revamp</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2011/11/29/blog-and-community-revamp/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 16:25:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been a while since I&#8217;ve posted, and as I&#8217;ve mentioned on the forums&#8230;I deeply apologize for that, and for putting people in a weird situation of not knowing if the site would still be around, or would disappear at any moment. Slaveduties.com will never go anywhere, of that I promise. Even though I was absent for a while, the site is permanently hosted and there is no risk of it ever going anywhere &#8211; I promise you that! Maintenance is an issue though, and spam became a problem. With the new forum and community revamp, spam will be much less of an issue &#8211; and along with DarkTruth I&#8217;d like to have a couple of long-term members become moderators&#8230;so that just in case I do go away for a little while again, the forums can be maintained! I have been back a while now, spending a lot of time in the chat and on the forums&#8230;I haven&#8217;t written any new posts because I really wanted to get the new design finished and implement the new functionality. Why? Because writing about my life requires me to be in a specific mind state, where I can reflect on my experiences. Working on the site is more of a technical and creative mindset, so it&#8217;s difficult to switch between the two. I just wanted to get the new version finished and then resume my posting&#8230;which I will do now :) I&#8217;d really like to thank everyone for your support, your love, and your constant comments and interaction with me. It means more than I could ever possibly express in words. Master has stated that Slaveduties.com will be my priority again, as it used to be. We got torn with some other projects, ideas, some flopped, some are still in the works, but basically Slaveduties.com just basically got put on the back burner for a while&#8230;but I realized coming back how important this site is to me. How much work I&#8217;ve put into it, the friends I&#8217;ve made, the ability to vent and get things out of my head and out into the open&#8230;it is amazingly therapeutic, and for example last night in the chat sWITCHed_on gave me some advice that I think put me down a path that I think Master has been trying and waiting for me to go down. It was an amazing revelation and that wouldn&#8217;t have been possible without the community, the chat, and &#8220;witchy&#8221; :) So, now everyone has the ability to add pictures in the forums gallery section, the forums area is so much better, stable, fast, and has a lot more functionality than the old ones. The blog itself is pretty much the same, with a new look to match the forums. I&#8217;m still working on adding more functionality to the forums, like video support, and a point system that actually rewards people with various gifts and perks. &#160;]]></description>
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		<title>Introspection in a BDSM Lifestyle</title>
		<link>http://slaveduties.com/2011/05/10/introspection-in-a-bdsm-lifestyle/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 May 2011 19:29:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Looking at one&#8217;s self introspectively can be a really difficult thing for anybody. Taking a step back and trying to look at yourself with an objective perspective is not only extremely hard, but I think necessary for all of us to do once in a while. Perhaps even moreso for those of us who live 24/7 in a BDSM lifestyle &#8211; it&#8217;s important to make sure your still on track, and making sure your happy in your circumstances. It&#8217;s good to kind of take inventory of one&#8217;s life, and think about making adjustments if need be. Recently a lot of stuff has changed in my life. I&#8217;m taking more of an integrated role in Masters work. I&#8217;m present on many shoots, I&#8217;ve been getting better at working on the computer, as there is always so much to do to maintain the websites and everything. I&#8217;ve been working really hard on a new version of slaveduties for you guys, namely the entire community aspect and the forums&#8230;it&#8217;s all pretty awesome and amazing. Taking a look at myself, I kinda like what I&#8217;m becoming. Don&#8217;t get me wrong&#8230;I&#8217;m still beaten on a daily basis, humiliated to tears, spend hours in bondage&#8230;but on top of all that, I find myself a lot more productive and contributing more to our household. That isn&#8217;t to take anything away from the house slave, she has her role, just as I do. Master enjoys her in her role, and we both must accept his judgement. I also find that having to use my brain more is really difficult&#8230;but I enjoy the satisfaction when I am done a task on the computer for example, I crawl over to Master, and I can shut off my brain as he invades my throat with his member. I gag, my eyes water, and I can go to that place where I don&#8217;t need to think&#8230;just linger in the moments of pain and humiliation. It makes me appreciate the time I spend in bondage, my muscles aching &#8211; every second feeling like an hour, yet it never feels like it&#8217;s long enough. I beg with Master to just leave me in until tomorrow&#8230; It&#8217;s teaching me that balance is so important. One makes you appreciate the other so much more. So I&#8217;m happy to be becoming more balanced, mainly of course because it&#8217;s what Master wants. He is happy that I&#8217;m evolving like this, and so ultimately that is what is making me the most happy. I just wanted to post a quick update to let you all know that some cool things are coming, and life has been good! Also in response to some comments on my previous post, I&#8217;m not ignoring you &#8211; I&#8217;m going to dedicate a post to talking about some of those points of discussion :)]]></description>
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